Big Hormone Enneagram
⚠️DISCLAIMER: This enneagram podcast contains highly charged elements. Contents may cause unexpected states of psychological depth and trigger unconventional insight. Listener discretion is advised. Hosted by John Luckovich, Emeka Okorafor, David Gray, Alexandra Arroyo-Acevedo
Episodes
Thursday Jan 04, 2024
BHE 174 - 2023 END OF YEAR WRAP PARTY
Thursday Jan 04, 2024
Thursday Jan 04, 2024
Looking back on 2023 with libations. Happy new year you filthy animals.
— (2:20) Our impressions of BHE year IV / shifts in the business of the enneagram— (8:31) Why interest in the enneagram is taking a dip — (14:27) Do people know about BHE or nah— (20:06) Enneagram reddit thinks Naranjo is the truth— (27:31) Highlights of 2023 episodes / the zones and the 7— (38:39) Social pain and the attachment support groups— (43:00) Frustration underlines the suffering of the personality— (49:41) Plans for 2024— (59:20) Love is in the air / beauty to scary ratio— (1:01:52) The return of trump— (1:13:25) Igbo spirituality market days
To sign up for John’s 2024 Egypt Trip visit:https://www.egyptretreats.com/
Enneagrammer — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Malcolm Gladwell, Charles Bukowski, and 269 Trifix . Join to watch typing classes and get typed at: https://www.enneagrammer.com/
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Help us buy new equipment here:venmo - @bighormonehttps://paypal.me/bighormone
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Sunday Dec 17, 2023
BHE 173 - BIG WINTER FLICKS
Sunday Dec 17, 2023
Sunday Dec 17, 2023
Chatting the enneagram in the movies.
— (2:48) Non-romantic sexual instinct in Suspiria / sx-middle teases / Twin Peaks’ weird sp/sx— (10:32) Holy Mountain and Enter the Void as sexual instinct movies— (14:39) Paul Thomas Anderson and attachment stories— (16:38) How rare sexual is in the stacking / most movies are sp/so / Ari Aster makes deranged sp/so movies— (21:08) Get Out and Parasite as so/sp / what social type movies focus on / 10 reasons why Wes Anderson sucks— (32:52) Passages sx/so 6 attachment madness— (44:39) The Assistant sp/so bermuda hell— (49:23) 8 directors / Possessor and hexad with attachment fixes / Tyler Perry’s a 2 director— (56:47) 5 directors / Kubrick as so/sx— (1:03:53) sp/so body gore, zombies, and romance— (1:06:57) sx/sp romance flicks
To sign up for John’s 2024 Egypt Trip visit:https://www.egyptretreats.com/
Enneagrammer — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Matt Rife, Andre 3000, and 269 Trifix . Join to watch typing classes and get typed at: https://www.enneagrammer.com/
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Help us buy new equipment here:venmo - @bighormonehttps://paypal.me/bighormone
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Monday Dec 04, 2023
BHE 172 - ASTROCARTOGRAPHY - ODINAKA
Monday Dec 04, 2023
Monday Dec 04, 2023
Od’s with us this week to dive into the interesting world of astrocartography.
— (10:12) What is astrocartography and how’d we get into this?— (16:08) Moving to significant areas on your astro map— (21:17) How to create your astrocartography map / what the circles on the map mean— (25:25) John’s lines confirm his love affair with Egypt— (29:04) DG’s meetings with dark men and misadventures in Africa— (34:02) Alexandra’s lines and the birthplace of her love— (38:12) And reconnecting with her spanish roots— (44:57) How far away is too far from a line?— (49:00) What it means when your sun line goes through a place— (57:03) How to look at this with your LocalSpace map— (1:05:20) What your mercury line goeing through somewhere means
To sign up for John’s 2024 Egypt Trip visit:https://www.egyptretreats.com/
Enneagrammer — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on 269 Trifix, Andre 3000, and Jeremy Fragrance. Join to watch typing classes and get typed at: https://www.enneagrammer.com/
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Help us buy new equipment here:venmo - @bighormonehttps://paypal.me/bighormone
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Wednesday Nov 22, 2023
BHE 171 - PART2.OPS SOCIAL ROLES - IKRAM
Wednesday Nov 22, 2023
Wednesday Nov 22, 2023
Continuing where we left off with Ikram and the Objective Personality Social Types. We’ve been typed #3 for DG, Alexandra, and John. #2 for Emeka. #4 for Ikram.
— (6:16) The sp/so framing of the social roles concept makes it smaller / does social roles have any implications for the sexual instinct?— (8:40) Emeka vs John sx/sp with responsibility vs specialization— (11:43) Flex masculine identity vs Friends feminine identity— (18:23) Specialization and responsibility minimize personhood in lieu of what i’m doing— (20:40) Responsibility-specialization tidal waves— (34:01) What is responsibility vs specialization — (40:35) Sexaul display as a Social Role 1 and 4— (50:48) What you need to integrate for each social role
To sign up for John’s 2024 Egypt Trip visit:https://www.egyptretreats.com/
DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Cesar Millan, The Stockholm Trifix, and Jada Pinket Smith. Join to watch typing classes: https://www.enneagrammer.com/daa
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Help us buy new equipment here:venmo - @bighormonehttps://paypal.me/bighormone
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Tuesday Nov 14, 2023
BHE 170 - OPS SOCIAL ROLES - IKRAM
Tuesday Nov 14, 2023
Tuesday Nov 14, 2023
We’re talking about the Objective Personality Social Types this week with Ikram. We’ve been typed #3 for DG, Alexandra, and John. #2 for Emeka. #4 for Ikram.
— (7:55) *Gasp* John is taking responsibility / intro to OPS social roles— (14:18) What does flex mean?— (20:03) Flex vs friends— (27:39) Friend saviors get their flex through connections with people / Flex alienates friends— (31:44) Distribution of social roles / Jesus is a #1?— (34:01) What is responsibility vs specialization — (40:01) How specialization last shows in Emeka— (43:38) Your social role is the position you take in a social dynamic— (45:36) Flex last for Ikram / Flex last doesn’t mean a lack of drive or ambition— (56:32) What’s specialization?— (1:04:20) #2 flexes by making things happen for everyone— (1:08:31) #4 friends have flex by not having flex— (1:12:48) How your social role contrasts with your enneagram type
To sign up for John’s 2024 Egypt Trip visit:https://www.egyptretreats.com/
DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Cesar Millan, Tabatha Coffee, and Jada Pinket Smith. Join to watch typing classes: https://www.enneagrammer.com/daa
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Help us buy new equipment here:venmo - @bighormonehttps://paypal.me/bighormone
Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
Sunday Nov 05, 2023
BHE 169 - [LIVE POD] GOATS AND MODELS IN THE BACKROOMS
Sunday Nov 05, 2023
Sunday Nov 05, 2023
Live from Brooklyn backrooms answering your questions.Watch here: https://youtu.be/WlHQcWEglks
— (2:32) How important is trifix order?— (12:10) What feels like boring chores to the sexual instinct?— (17:31) How DG experiences his lines of connection as a 9 with no attachment fixes— (25:26) What cakes would each of us bake?— (30:13) How to rizz up the 3-7 stem?— (36:56) What are the holy ideas and higher centers?— (45:10) Insights from the baaaack roooommms - attachment is the seed for object relations— (52:39) Is so/sx what is represented on all the memes on extraversion?
To sign up for John’s 2024 Egypt Trip visit:https://www.egyptretreats.com/
DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Tom Waits, Snobby vs Peopley, and Tabatha Coffee. Join to watch typing classes: https://www.enneagrammer.com/daa
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Help us buy new equipment here:venmo - @bighormonehttps://paypal.me/bighormone
Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
Monday Oct 16, 2023
BHE 168 - THE SHAME
Monday Oct 16, 2023
Monday Oct 16, 2023
The wet heart types. Live pod this weekend. Be on the lookout for details.
— (4:35) Assertive hexad types being out of touch with their shame— (6:26) Shame is not a great word for what the heart types are experiencing / identity needing to feel special— (12:57) Heart types needing to reinforcing pictures to feel a felt sense of specialness— (15:17) Confusing heart type shame with feeling ashamed / shame is the emotion of being out of alignment with value— (25:30) 4 and 4-fix shame— (34:37) Denigration and disgust is the 4 fix reaction to shame— (42:41) 3 and 3-fix shame / being a 3 is like climbing up a downward escalator — (46:10) 3 vs 4 fix compliments and value recognition— (58:32) 2 and 2 fix shame— (1:02:14) 2s supply their own validation— (1:09:07) 2 reaction to shame is to go straight to moral rage and indignation
To sign up for John’s 2024 Egypt Trip visit:https://www.egyptretreats.com/
DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Katie Porter, Snobby vs Peopley, and Iyanla. Join to watch typing classes: https://www.enneagrammer.com/daa
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Help us buy new equipment here:venmo - @bighormonehttps://paypal.me/bighormone
Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
Monday Oct 02, 2023
BHE 167 - THE RAGE
Monday Oct 02, 2023
Monday Oct 02, 2023
The fuming and stewing gut types.
— (4:03) Alexandra wants to be led when she’s in the mood— (9:05) David is very angry at the sun— (16:49) And the plague of bread people— (20:35) Alexandra finally admits she has a rage problem— (30:30) Emeka’s rage is the fuel that keeps the car running people over— (34:25) 8 vs 1 fix anger and boundaries / the games begin once the 8 lets you in— (42:41) 4s and 8s are drama queen inversions of each other— (45:59) The cutting denigrating rage of 1s— (50:02) 1s think they know the one best way to do everything
To sign up for John’s 2024 Egypt Trip visit:https://www.egyptretreats.com/
DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Snobby vs Peopley, Reactive types, and 7w6 vs 6w7. Join to watch typing classes: https://www.enneagrammer.com/daa
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Help us buy new equipment here:venmo - @bighormonehttps://paypal.me/bighormone
Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
Monday Sep 25, 2023
BHE 166 - THE FEAR
Monday Sep 25, 2023
Monday Sep 25, 2023
Delving into the fear and anxiety of the head types.
— (3:57) 5 fear of being contaminated— (10:40) Avarice is a sense that personhood isn’t robust enough to be fully exposed in the world— (11:30) The 8 line to 5 and the 2 line to 8— (16:30) Ways to work on 5 avarice— (19:18) 5 fear as one way endless monologues— (24:17) How Emeka and John experience 5 fix fear— (33:52) 6 fear of fear itself— (37:02) 6 considering all possibilities / fear disguised as responsibility and logic— (46:48) 6 preemptive call outs and self-deprecation / the essence quality of 6 is to be the universe’s eye— (50:33) 5 subjectivity vs 6 objectivity— (57:37) Toxic 7 fear— (1:06:30) 7 is running from the limitations of what is— (1:10:47) 7s need to get in touch with their own generation instead of just consuming— (1:15:04) 7 anxiety showing up as manic consumption
To sign up for John’s 2024 Egypt Trip visit:https://www.egyptretreats.com/
DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on James Sexton, Reactive types, and 7w6 vs 6w7. Join to watch typing classes: https://www.enneagrammer.com/daa
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
You can support the show with a donation here:venmo - @bighormonehttps://paypal.me/bighormone
Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
Sunday Sep 17, 2023
BHE 165 - S O C I A L Instincity
Sunday Sep 17, 2023
Sunday Sep 17, 2023
— (8:25) Riffing on new terms for social / resonance and frequency— (15:08) Social as a 3D matrix / What is the big deal with what social types are looking for?— (20:15) We feel social chemistry with those who we feel regulated by— (23:17) Social boners and turn ons / the sensation of social in the body— (26:42) Social-blinds aren’t updating social impressions as the connection evolves— (30:03) Do the social-blinds confuse sexual attraction with socal attraction?— (39:52) How do the social-blinds recognize when they’re being cared for or that they care?— (48:03) Social resonance is either there or it’s not— (51:58) Are we not seeing our social impact? / leaving behind a graveyard of missed connections— (1:00:12) The essence of each instinct and it’s distorted
To sign up for John’s 2024 Egypt Trip visit:https://www.egyptretreats.com/
DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on James Sexton, Bad Bunny, and HRH Collection. Join to watch typing classes: https://www.enneagrammer.com/daa
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
You can support the show with a donation here:venmo - @bighormonehttps://paypal.me/bighormone
Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
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