Sunday Dec 19, 2021
BHE 098 - so you’re still confused about your instincts [part 1]
This week we’re exploring and explaining the parts of instincts that continue to confuse and trip people up.
— (6:12) Where did the idea of a blindspot come from and is the blindspot really blind?
— (14:27) Overestimating your sexual instinct when you’re sexual blind
— (17:24) Sexual is penetrating and flipping polarities moment to moment
— (23:26) How Nancy was able to see her sexual blindness as truly blind. Sexual as hooks and tension.
— (30:46) Being self-pres dominant and also being terrible at self-pres
— (41:08) How can I be a social type if I don’t like people? How social types are socialing
— (51:06) Sexual types who don’t see themselves as sexual dominant
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Some of that is cingruent with what I noticed myself in - analyzing why TV show scene is hot or romantic. Also rewatching stuff is sp? Because i love to put my fav music on repeat and I have my favorite anime all but menorized...
Monday Dec 20, 2021
You got into some interesting stuff here about how interaction or flirting etc even works at the smallest level
Monday Dec 20, 2021
I would *definitely* want to see Alexandra taking apart a reality tv show. Also reminds me of my sister Maria often the rest of us will be talking loudly & I used to feel a bit bad about her not getting to say much until she explained that she really enjoys hearing the rest of us discuss stuff- not just listening out of patience duty & love for the other person or interest in the topic, but really getting excited by it for its own sake.
Monday Dec 20, 2021
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