Sunday Dec 19, 2021
BHE 098 - so you’re still confused about your instincts [part 1]
This week we’re exploring and explaining the parts of instincts that continue to confuse and trip people up.
— (6:12) Where did the idea of a blindspot come from and is the blindspot really blind?
— (14:27) Overestimating your sexual instinct when you’re sexual blind
— (17:24) Sexual is penetrating and flipping polarities moment to moment
— (23:26) How Nancy was able to see her sexual blindness as truly blind. Sexual as hooks and tension.
— (30:46) Being self-pres dominant and also being terrible at self-pres
— (41:08) How can I be a social type if I don’t like people? How social types are socialing
— (51:06) Sexual types who don’t see themselves as sexual dominant
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3 years ago
Some of that is cingruent with what I noticed myself in - analyzing why TV show scene is hot or romantic. Also rewatching stuff is sp? Because i love to put my fav music on repeat and I have my favorite anime all but menorized...
3 years ago
You got into some interesting stuff here about how interaction or flirting etc even works at the smallest level
3 years ago
I would *definitely* want to see Alexandra taking apart a reality tv show. Also reminds me of my sister Maria often the rest of us will be talking loudly & I used to feel a bit bad about her not getting to say much until she explained that she really enjoys hearing the rest of us discuss stuff- not just listening out of patience duty & love for the other person or interest in the topic, but really getting excited by it for its own sake.