Saturday Mar 19, 2022

BHE 107 - THE BERMUDA ZONE - Courtney & Alexandra

Nancy hosts a bangin attachment talk with Alexandra and Courtney. Some magic happened in this Bermuda Zone.

— (3:24) Contrasting and comparing attachment to disconnect experiences from the perspective of 3/6/9
— (10:38) 3&9 vs 6 differences on revealing their location
— (18:54) Round robin impressions of the other attachment types
— (21:18) What’s scary about 9 for 3&6
— (24:16) What’s scary about 3 for 6&9
— (30:02) What’s scary about 6 for 9&3
— (36:41) 6’s need to earn it and are committed to life being difficult
— (40:11) Courtney’s experiences as an attachment parent
— (44:10) Nancy recalls what it was like to be parented by a hexad vs an attachment parent
— (48:52) Alexandra’s experiences in an all attachment family
— (1:04:55) The attachment insecurity around being loved for you are as an individual vs how you’ve adapted to be loved
— (1:09:36) What each attachment type thinks they needed from their parents
— (1:16:56) Grounding practices for each attachment type

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kendrix

Really fascinating (even if or especially because I cant personally relate to it at all) Its much easier to constructively respond to these behaviors when you know the purpose behind it. There is certainly some of it that I do recognize in my sisters for exampke without having these words for it . I liked that you added more on the family dynamics stuff and the practical tips at the end.

Tuesday Apr 05, 2022