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Friday Apr 01, 2022
Friday Apr 01, 2022
This week we have on special guest Ian Cron, author of the Road Back To You. We’ve put aside our differences and tried to come to an understanding.
— (5:10) Introduction to Ian Cron and his work— (8:49) Love and compassion are what makes us human— (15:23) 4s are focused on the dark but are also envious of your happiness and light— (22:44) We make amends for #nota4 and the emotional psychological trauma it has caused— (28:66) The church has revolutionized the enneagram — (33:69) The emptiness of our hearts have to be filled by his love
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Sunday Mar 27, 2022
Sunday Mar 27, 2022
This week Emeka and Alejohndra are discussing the Netflix doc, The Tinder Swindler. The rest of crew has been held hostage by our road back to you haters in Prague. Please paypal $500 to bhepodcast@gmail.com or David and Nancy will die. Love you babies forever.
— (7:58) Overview/Summary of the premise and why this story is compelling from the POV of the enneagram— (13:29) Attachment is the fundamental O.R. structure for everyone and people don’t really connect with each other— (15:28) 3s are mirroring back to you what you find valuable and crafting an emotional landscape— (28:44) The competency of 3 at masterminding an identity and scheme— (33:58) Elizabeth Holmes and Kanye as further examples of what’s so compelling about 3s— (40:51) How the different assertive types scam people— (45:00) Attachment gone bad on The Bachelor and Love is Blind. The 9 vs 3 style of blankness
If you haven’t already, go buy John’s book on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
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Call the Loveline with your comments and thoughts about the show at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message.
Saturday Mar 19, 2022
Saturday Mar 19, 2022
Nancy hosts a bangin attachment talk with Alexandra and Courtney. Some magic happened in this Bermuda Zone.
— (3:24) Contrasting and comparing attachment to disconnect experiences from the perspective of 3/6/9— (10:38) 3&9 vs 6 differences on revealing their location — (18:54) Round robin impressions of the other attachment types— (21:18) What’s scary about 9 for 3&6— (24:16) What’s scary about 3 for 6&9— (30:02) What’s scary about 6 for 9&3— (36:41) 6’s need to earn it and are committed to life being difficult— (40:11) Courtney’s experiences as an attachment parent — (44:10) Nancy recalls what it was like to be parented by a hexad vs an attachment parent— (48:52) Alexandra’s experiences in an all attachment family— (1:04:55) The attachment insecurity around being loved for you are as an individual vs how you’ve adapted to be loved— (1:09:36) What each attachment type thinks they needed from their parents— (1:16:56) Grounding practices for each attachment type
If you haven’t already, go buy John’s book on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Sign up for the Dark Arts Academy at enneagrammer.com
Call the Loveline with your comments and thoughts about the show at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message.
Friday Mar 11, 2022
Friday Mar 11, 2022
The long awaited episode on John’s Egypt obsession is here. John has returned from the holy lands with much to share on the pyramids.
— (6:57) Why we should give a f**k about Egypt?— (14:01) Egypt requires us to be present in all three centers — (16:25) John Anthony West and the origins of symbolist egypt— (21:42) Egyptians understood that the divine expressed itself with intentional metaphor— (24:19) The law of 3 and inner work metaphor in Horus, Set, and Isis is at core of what Egypt represents— (29:03) The Ennead of Heliopolis being a precursor to the origins of the enneagram— (33:04) The precision and scale of the pyramids is an incredible otherworldly experience— (36:37) The Younger Dryas event wiped out a global civilization — (49:30) The pyramids represent specific stars on the earth— (51:09) What to do if you’re interested in going to Egypt with John— (59:44) Egypt is a mind-blowing and humbling experience of inner life on the grandest scale
Watch the Revelations of the Pyramids Documentary John mentioned:https://youtu.be/2fS9ixfQ_no
If you haven’t already, go buy John’s book on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Sign up for the Dark Arts Academy at enneagrammer.com
Call the Loveline with your comments and thoughts about the show at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message.
Friday Feb 25, 2022
Friday Feb 25, 2022
This week we’re exploring the relationship chemistry between 3 & 9.
— (6:41) David’s impressions and romantic experiences with 3’s— (16:55) Nancy’s impressions and romantic experiences with 9’s— (26:21) Togetherness and the parenting philosophy of attachment vs hexad— (44:33) The high and low sides of 3x9 relationships— (54:12) The growth edges for a 3x9 pairing
If you haven’t already, go buy John’s book on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
Call the Loveline with your comments and thoughts about the show at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com with a pre-recorded voice message.
Friday Feb 11, 2022
Friday Feb 11, 2022
Good luck following this freeform conversation on the law of three, relationships, and the polarity between 9 and the gap.
— (5:33) John’s visions of the law of 3 and why Pete Davidson gets girls— (9:34) Attachment types being open and available on the frontend but unavailable on the backend— (13:56) #Nota4 and the acceptance and thinking style of 9 vs the rejection at the gap— (28:55) Everything is a threesome and how 9s must integrate non-integration — (34:39) Attachment types are unconscious of their No’s, and hexad types of their Yes’s— (42:17) Astrological mate selection and cosmic latte— (52:42) There’s probably only one ideal romantic type for you on the enneagram
If you haven’t already, go buy John’s book on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
Call the Loveline with your comments and thoughts about the show at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com with a pre-recorded voice message.
Friday Feb 04, 2022
Friday Feb 04, 2022
This week, Alexandra is here to help us delve into our hormonal astrological compatibilities.
— (3:37) Alexandra’s intro to composite and synastry compatibility — (5:38) Nancy David— (10:59) John Emeka— (24:57) Emeka Nancy— (32:21) David Emeka— (40:05) John Nancy— (47:46) David John— (52:54) Alexandra Everyone and closing thoughts
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If you haven’t already, go buy John’s book on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
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Thursday Jan 27, 2022
Thursday Jan 27, 2022
Your himbo grumps are back at it again, to pick apart an often repeated and incorrect adage, “movitation, not behavior”.
— (3:14) It’s both motivation AND behavior, and you don’t know your own motivation— (6:26) The instinctual drives and other layers have to be considered in motivation — (11:59) The motivation behind creating easily misunderstood catch phrases— (15:42) Each type structure is very limited and ‘close-minded’— (18:13) Attachment types not wanting to be pinned down and rehashing the conflict around the ‘real me’— (30:58) The question of what do I do now and the blindspot as the key— (37:10) Type isn’t what you think you’re good at— (43:50) Why you need an outside reflection to see/type yourself
If you haven’t already, go buy John’s book on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
Donate to help us pay for new audio equipment at bhepodcast@gmail.com (paypal) or venmo us @emekv.
Call the Loveline with your comments and thoughts about the show at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com with a pre-recorded voice message.
Wednesday Jan 19, 2022
Wednesday Jan 19, 2022
Join us with libations and your substances of choice to look back on the transformative year that was 2021.
— (9:32) The year of uncovering attachment and confronting our blindspots— (19:10) Props, shoutouts, and accomplishments— (26:17) John’s instincts book release— (46:34) Dark Arts Academy — (1:01:22) Plans for 2022
If you haven’t already, go buy John’s book on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
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Friday Dec 31, 2021
Friday Dec 31, 2021
We’re responding to your loveline submissions for our 100th episode. Thanks for all your comments, questions, and feedback. We appreciate y’all sticking with us thus far.
— (6:04) The inaccessibility of the pod’s communication style — (9:35) What drug would each of the hosts be?— (13:22) Sex worker question for Nancy— (18:05) Advise for christians who are interested in learning the enneagram— (25:21) Why we get so much hate— (39:46) Girthy request for more on the compartmentalization of the self-pres instinct— (44:15) Request to explore connections between mbti and the enneagram. And factors that determine collage instinct typings.— (48:00) Syn/Contra question for David— (54:55) Request for more on each trifix and why spotify only has our episodes starting from episode 4— (57:35) How the hornevian triads and the object relational stances combine to illustrate the inner works of the types— (1:00:44) 5 vs 7 confusion with Grimes as an example— (1:04:04) Exploring nuances and sharper distinctions for bermuda’s
If you haven’t already, go buy John’s book on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
Call the Loveline with your comments and thoughts about the show at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com with a pre-recorded voice message.