Big Hormone Enneagram

BHE 106 - THE EGYPT EPISODE

The long awaited episode on John’s Egypt obsession is here. John has returned from the holy lands with much to share on the pyramids.
— (6:57) Why we should give a f**k about Egypt?— (14:01) Egypt requires us to be present in all three centers — (16:25) John Anthony West and the origins of symbolist egypt— (21:42) Egyptians understood that the divine expressed itself with intentional metaphor— (24:19) The law of 3 and inner work metaphor in Horus, Set, and Isis is at core of what Egypt represents— (29:03) The Ennead of Heliopolis being a precursor to the origins of the enneagram— (33:04) The precision and scale of the pyramids is an incredible otherworldly experience— (36:37) The Younger Dryas event wiped out a global civilization — (49:30) The pyramids represent specific stars on the earth— (51:09) What to do if you’re interested in going to Egypt with John— (59:44) Egypt is a mind-blowing and humbling experience of inner life on the grandest scale
Watch the Revelations of the Pyramids Documentary John mentioned:https://youtu.be/2fS9ixfQ_no
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BHE 105 - 3X9 RELATIONSHIP ＜0＞ COMPATIBILITY

This week we’re exploring the relationship chemistry between 3 & 9. 
— (6:41) David’s impressions and romantic experiences with 3’s— (16:55) Nancy’s impressions and romantic experiences with 9’s— (26:21) Togetherness and the parenting philosophy of attachment vs hexad— (44:33) The high and low sides of 3x9 relationships— (54:12) The growth edges for a 3x9 pairing
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BHE 104 - THE COSMIC THREEWAY

Good luck following this freeform conversation on the law of three, relationships, and the polarity between 9 and the gap.
— (5:33) John’s visions of the law of 3 and why Pete Davidson gets girls— (9:34) Attachment types being open and available on the frontend but unavailable on the backend— (13:56) #Nota4 and the acceptance and thinking style of 9 vs the rejection at the gap— (28:55) Everything is a threesome and how 9s must integrate non-integration — (34:39) Attachment types are unconscious of their No’s, and hexad types of their Yes’s— (42:17) Astrological mate selection and cosmic latte— (52:42) There’s probably only one ideal romantic type for you on the enneagram 
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BHE 103 - HORMONAL ASTROLOGY ＜0＞ SYNASTRY - Alexandra

This week, Alexandra is here to help us delve into our hormonal astrological compatibilities.
— (3:37) Alexandra’s intro to composite and synastry compatibility — (5:38) Nancy David— (10:59) John Emeka— (24:57) Emeka Nancy— (32:21) David Emeka— (40:05) John Nancy— (47:46) David John— (52:54) Alexandra Everyone and closing thoughts
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BHE 102 - MOTIVATION // NOT BEHAVIOR

Your himbo grumps are back at it again, to pick apart an often repeated and incorrect adage, “movitation, not behavior”.
— (3:14) It’s both motivation AND behavior, and you don’t know your own motivation— (6:26) The instinctual drives and other layers have to be considered in motivation — (11:59) The motivation behind creating easily misunderstood catch phrases— (15:42) Each type structure is very limited and ‘close-minded’— (18:13) Attachment types not wanting to be pinned down and rehashing the conflict around the ‘real me’— (30:58) The question of what do I do now and the blindspot as the key— (37:10) Type isn’t what you think you’re good at— (43:50) Why you need an outside reflection to see/type yourself
If you haven’t already, go buy John’s book on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
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BHE 101 - 2021 YEAR END WRAP PARTY

Join us with libations and your substances of choice to look back on the transformative year that was 2021.
— (9:32) The year of uncovering attachment and confronting our blindspots— (19:10) Props, shoutouts, and accomplishments— (26:17) John’s instincts book release— (46:34) Dark Arts Academy — (1:01:22) Plans for 2022
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BHE 100 - LOVELINE // EPISODE 100 EXTRAVAGANZA

We’re responding to your loveline submissions for our 100th episode. Thanks for all your comments, questions, and feedback. We appreciate y’all sticking with us thus far. 
— (6:04) The inaccessibility of the pod’s communication style — (9:35) What drug would each of the hosts be?— (13:22) Sex worker question for Nancy— (18:05) Advise for christians who are interested in learning the enneagram— (25:21) Why we get so much hate— (39:46) Girthy request for more on the compartmentalization of the self-pres instinct— (44:15) Request to explore connections between mbti and the enneagram. And factors that determine collage instinct typings.— (48:00) Syn/Contra question for David— (54:55) Request for more on each trifix and why spotify only has our episodes starting from episode 4— (57:35) How the hornevian triads and the object relational stances combine to illustrate the inner works of the types— (1:00:44) 5 vs 7 confusion with Grimes as an example— (1:04:04) Exploring nuances and sharper distinctions for bermuda’s
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BHE 099 - OBJECTIVE PERSONALITY THEORY [PART 1]

This week we’re getting into a mbti personality system called Objective Personality (OPS). We ended up doing a rough intro into the basic concepts of OPS, and how we might explore connections between cognitive functions and the enneagram.
— (10:16) What is the objective personality approach to MBTI?— (19:21) The function animals and how they work (Blast, Consume, Play, Sleep)— (23:55) Function animals are like instinct stacking (Info vs Energy)— (42:35) What are cognitive functions and how is a mbti type structured?— (48:40) Sensory vs Intuition— (51:26) Saviors vs Demons functions and animals. How to develop the blindspot— (1:08:21) Deciders vs Observers— (1:12:06) How to figure out your mbti type
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BHE 098 - so you’re still confused about your instincts [part 1]

This week we’re exploring and explaining the parts of instincts that continue to confuse and trip people up.
— (6:12) Where did the idea of a blindspot come from and is the blindspot really blind?— (14:27) Overestimating your sexual instinct when you’re sexual blind— (17:24) Sexual is penetrating and flipping polarities moment to moment— (23:26) How Nancy was able to see her sexual blindness as truly blind. Sexual as hooks and tension.— (30:46) Being self-pres dominant and also being terrible at self-pres— (41:08) How can I be a social type if I don’t like people? How social types are socialing— (51:06) Sexual types who don’t see themselves as sexual dominant
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BHE 097 - ATTACHMENT TO DISCONNECT [Bermuda Edition PART 2] - Courtney & Czander

Continuing where we left off with Courtney and Czander and attachment to disconnect from the 3-6-9 Bermuda Triangle.
— (9:26) How does a good attachment form for attachment types if attaching is based on not being seen?— (17:13) 9s needing contrast and negation to find themselves and resisting being located— (22:52) Attachment types exist in shifting context, which makes them resistant to pinning down self-location and identity— (29:58) How 9s are open but ‘not there’ in their attachments, and how that gets in the way of relationships— (46:58) Courtney explains how a healthy attachment for a 6 helps affirm and trust her intuition— (53:50) Nancy explains how 3 shame helps her individuate— (57:10) Attachment types are listening and the hexad types are not— (1:06:02) Attachment types take their identity too seriously
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