Big Hormone Enneagram

BHE 096 - #NOTAN8

This week we're tackling type 8 misconceptions and misinformation that lead so many to mistype and idealize type 8.
— (10:26) Emeka’s overview of often overlooked aspects of the 8 type structure— (15:22) 8 is dissociating to reject and stay separate but involved by embodying the protecting function— (19:40) 8s are separate and expansive in ways that dehumanizes themselves and others— (23:18) 8 control is about setting boundaries and terms of engagement, not telling people what to do or being angry— (28:48) 6 and 9 superego’s trying to make type 8 into a good person with ‘protecting the underdog’. And what 8’s are really protective of— (40:53) The 8 journey is about learning to care about and make room for people and their humanity. How 8s can be so involved yet cut off— (51:33) 8s apologizing and experiencing remorse as a powerful tool for growth— (53:40) Real 8s are far less attached or invested in identifying with type as a badge of identity— (58:20) How to distinguish someone who has an 8 fix vs 1 or 9 fixers— (1:07:25) The dehumanization and idealization of type 8 in the enneagram world
Tune in to hear John and Emeka on the upcoming Enneagram Global Summit. Sign up with our links:https://shiftnetwork.infusionsoft.com/go/egs21JohnL/JohnLhttps://shiftnetwork.infusionsoft.com/go/egs21a23961/a23961
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BHE 095 - ATTACHMENT TO DISCONNECT [Bermuda Edition PART I] - Courtney & Czander

This week Courtney and Czander are with us to attempt to uncover the mysteries of attachment to disconnect from the 3-6-9 Bermuda Triangle.
— (13:30) Courtney’s take on how the 3 is committed to remaining slippery and disconnected— (17:02) 3’s maintain a disconnect by assuming people only want their palatable selves instead of their genuine selves— (26:59) The 3’s attachments are a prop for how their original caregivers defined value— (40:17) The crafted persona that the 3 presents will always be disconnected from the true self so the 3 never feels validated— (43:49) The 6 remains slippery because they’re trying to garner support from contradictory attachments— (48:34) 6s trying to garner support by being a hot mess and self-sabotaging to create a sense of disconnect— (53:54) 6s garnering support via attachment to being the underdog that won’t win but won’t give up— (56:16) The way 6s ensure they’re not supported is by never articulating what they want
Tune in to hear John and Emeka on the upcoming Enneagram Global Summit. Sign up with our links:https://shiftnetwork.infusionsoft.com/go/egs21JohnL/JohnLhttps://shiftnetwork.infusionsoft.com/go/egs21a23961/a23961
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BHE 094 - THE BHAVACHAKRA RECAP

We’re wrapping up our Bhavachakra instinct discussions riffing on David’s insights and odds & ends.
— (9:42) The Bhavachakra and Buddhism are a philosophy of psychology— (14:45) The scarcity of attraction for sx/sp compared to sx/so— (19:48) The ‘star’ principle of sx/so and how this appears in Egyptian cosmology — (25:57) The overarching message and takeaways DG wants you to get from the Bhavachakra’s instinct mandala — (32:12) Nancy’s take on the sp/so beast realm and existence revolving on having baseline needs met— (35:08) Contrasting sp/so and sp/sx with dogs and cats (again)— (45:17) The interesting numerology arising from the stackings overlapping with the types and how these overlaps show up in the collage exercise
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BHE 093 - SO/SP & SO/SX - Alexandra & Joseph

We’re continuing our discussions on instincts, joined by Joseph and Alexandra, to get into the social stackings and DG’s insights with the Bhavachakra.
— (5:24) David’s intro to his SO/SX and SO/SP correlations on the  Bhavachakra— (18:21) The social types weigh in on the contrasts between their stackings— (30:34) How so/sp experiences so/sx and vice versa— (48:46) How social dominants get triggered by social middles and finding ease with social-lasts— (1:08:58) The contrast in how the social stackings approach ideology and politics 
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BHE 092 - LOVELINE #5 // Instinctual Drives and the Enneagram Edition

This week we’re discussing and answering your submitted loveline questions on John’s instinct book.
— (3:21) What might it look like when a type is faced with a situation that exemplifies the loss of essential quality?— (22:10) A critique about John’s use of the word individuation and hormonal comments about his hotness— (31:18) How is the instinct stacking determined and why does one instinct become dominant over another?— (43:56) What is the distinction between the loss of self of sexual and spiritual dissolving of the ego?— (48:44) What does secondary self-pres for sx/sp look like for people who are bad at self-pres?— (52:03) Where to find the music used at the end of the upisodes?— (53:08) How to type each type and we read the energy of each type?— (56:51) How aspects of personality contribute to people getting along with each other?
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BHE 091 - SX/SP & SX/SO - Beth

We’re continuing our discussions on instincts, joined by my bb Beth, to get into the sexual stackings and DG’s insights with the Bhavachakra.
— (6:39) David’s intro to his SX/SO and SX/SP correlations on the  Bhavachakra— (14:35) Beth’s experience as a sx/so attachment type in contrast to social types and sx/sp— (26:21) What distinctly makes sx/so a sexual type— (35:30) Contrasting sx/so with so/sx— (49:54) Hungry ghosts (sx/sp) and Gods/Goddesses (sx/so)— (57:40) Personality and social genres as an attraction hook for sx/so
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BHE 090 - SP/SO & SP/SX

This week we’re continuing our discussions on instincts with a dive into the self-pres stackings and DG’s magical abstractions with the Bhavachakra.
— (3:47) Intro to SP/SO, SP/SX, and David’s instinct discoveries with the Bhavachakra— (11:32) What exactly is the Bhavachakra and how is it a map for the instincts and stackings?— (19:00) The 6 instinct stackings are real and the collage exercise is an aesthetic manifestation of them— (23:07) David’s discovery of how each instinct overlays the  triangle on the enneagram symbol and each stacking on the hexad — (25:28) SP/SO correlating to type 8 and SP/SX to type 5— (31:47) The religion of SP/SO and every stacking is a lie— (39:01) Experiences and anecdotes of SP/SO and SP/SX— (53:53) Dogs (sp/so) vs cats (sp/sx)
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BHE 089 - ATTACHMENT TO DISCONNECT - Czander Tan

This week we’re joined by Czander to delve into his illuminating insight on the disconnect of attachment types. 
— (8:56) Czander shares his comment on attachment and discusses his thought process on how he figured it out— (20:54) How attachment types make themselves feel not seen and supported so they can adapt— (37:15) Integrating the blindspot is the key to go from functioning (adapting) to being— (44:18) Attachment types seeing themselves as the problem and martyring themselves to persevere in difficult circumstances— (1:00:02) Attachment types projecting disconnect on others because they’re disconnected from themselves— (1:07:04) Attachment types having amnesia seeing re-occuring problems as new each time — (1:18:02) Attachment types are attached to being disconnected from their emotions
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BHE 088 - INTEGRATING THE BLINDSPOT PT.3 [BOOK/LAUNCH]

We’re back at it discussing John’s new instincts book, continuing where we left off with how to integrate the blindspot.
— (4:57) The social approaches— (25:10) Practices for integrating the self-pres blindspot— (37:48) Practices for integrating the sexual blindspot— (58:02) Practices for integrating the social blindspot
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BHE 087 - INTEGRATING THE BLINDSPOT PT.2 [BOOK/LAUNCH]

We’re continuing where we left off with integrating the blindspot.
— (6:00) Hitting the soc-last pain back walls harder exploring our toxic traits— (26:18) Introduction to the instinctual approaches and needs— (40:20) Self-pres approaches— (51:20) Sexual approaches
Stay tuned for more book launch content this month. And if you haven’t already, go buy John’s book on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
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