Big Hormone Enneagram

BHE 079 - HEXAD VS ATTACHMENT UNDRESSED [PART CONT’D]

We’re back with new insights to share continuing our hexad vs attachment series.
— (1:26)  Revisiting the curious case of David Gray and his hidden very weird attachment— (9:09) Reviewing the last episode’s insights on the individuated vs attachment yes and no— (12:40) The premature yes of attachment vs the premature no of rejection vs the ‘yes, but no’ of frustration— (16:50) Emeka’s experience of the severing of rejection and ‘no’ as a baseline— (21:47) Nancy’s reaction and how the grass isn’t greener on the hexad side— (30:36) The latest on John’s book release and Courtney joining us next week to work her magic on hexad vs attachment
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BHE 078 - 9X9 ATTACHMENT FACE/OFF - David oxo Alexandra

We’re continuing our explorations of attachment with a face/off between Cult Daddy David and Undignified CQ Alexandra. Venture into this double 9 labyrinth and you *might* emerge from the mist with insights from below and above attachment.
— (7:26)  An examination of the internal yes/no tug of war from the perspective of attachment types— (15:42) Ideas on how attachment types might find their location sooner rather than later— (24:33) Alexandra and David’s complaints about hexad types— (34:25) Differences between Alexandra and David’s attachment and How ‘familiar’ attachment showed up for David as a young f*ckboi— (41:44) There was always a clear “No”— (47:49) Hexad types are too fixated because they lack an ‘external channel’— (51:09) The gift of attachment is channeling— (55:48) How do 6s do it?— (1:00:42) Make attachment types great again
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BHE 077 - HEXAD VS ATTACHMENT UNDRESSED [PART I]

We’re landing on major discoveries exploring hexad vs attachment. Undressing the invisible assumptions of attachment explains so much about how the world functions, and how oppositional hexad and attachment orientations are.
— (2:41)  Parasocial relationships as a manifestation of attachment— (8:38)  Hexad inflexibility and self-containment is not attachable— (11:44) Agreement and meeting halfway as a feature of attachment— (29:51) How David’s does attachment online as a soc-blind — (39:13) Comfortable attachment as a starting point to real attachment, but settling for what’s good enough for now— (44:42) The suffering of hexad types is the inability to adapt from their vision— (47:22) Aloneness from the perspective of attachment vs hexad— (1:05:55) The concept of a soulmate is a hexad perspective
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BHE 076 - ATTACHMENT DEMONS [PART CONT’D]

We need to talk about attachment some more. Interesting new questions and insights about attachment have emerged as a result of our soul intercourse series. Let’s spin.
— (4:03)  Inner disagreement and ongoing friction fueling attachment— (9:24)  The implications of attachment in politics and group dynamics— (14:44) The mechanics behind the hate/love relationship attachment types have with us— (20:42) How Nancy and DG self-locate their preferences— (33:15) Hexad vs attachment on arguments and disagreement— (40:57) Attachment types coming to terms with how they’re giving away their autonomy— (46:56) Putting it all together with how and why attachment types get lost in the sauce— (49:18) Why attachment types think hexad types are ‘cool’ and get triggered by them
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BHE 075 - SOUL::INTERCOURSE: Attachment Demons [Part 2/2] - Alexandra

Continuing where we left off with our beloved CQ Alexandra joining us to excavate the challenges attachment types face in love, intimacy, and sexuality. 
— (4:17)  Attachment types individuating by facing fear, leaving ‘home’, and being alone— (14:37) Attachment types having to individuate by finding their soul family — (21:33) Attachment types finding themselves by locating what moves and affects them and responding to it— (28:28) How humbling and exposing it is to be wanted just as you are vs what you’re manufacturing — (38:01) How DG relates to the attachment type struggle
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BHE 074 - SOUL::INTERCOURSE: Attachment Demons [Part 1/2] - Alexandra

The soul sex saga continues. Our beloved CQ Alexandra joins us to excavate the challenges attachment types face in love, intimacy, and sexuality. 
— (1:27)  Addressing excuses and deflections— (7:49)  What social blinds are missing and how that can be detrimental in love— (11:33) Sexual blinds seen as uncool by sexual blinds— (22:37) How attachment types hook others by seeing themselves through their eyes— (29:28) The dynamic of the pod needs more Nancy— (38:00) What's wrong with not having any attachment? — (43:18) Attachment types remaining unaffected by chasing ‘gold stars’ in relationships they barely care about
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BHE 073 - SOUL::INTERCOURSE: Loveline Edition

This week we’re responding to your comments on our soul intercourse series. It’s gonna get spicy. 
— (2:59)  Can we discuss this topic from the queer perspective?— (5:48)  David’s favorite stripper with mother issues has an amazing sex life— (9:53) Confused rambler with nothing to contribute has some shit to say— (22:39) Is what we’re sharing triggering insecurities?— (31:57) Social 2 shares her experience making a soul connection with her partner— (33:50) Appreciative type 2 caller loves this topic and misses having this type of connection
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BHE 072 - SOUL::INTERCOURSE [Part DG]: The Curious Case of David Gray

We getting all up in DG’s grille this week. What’s his deal with sexuality and relationships anyway? 
— (2:32)  David unpacks his significant age gap kink  — (7:01)  DG’s childhood and how that influences how seriously he takes himself as a partner— (14:03) The most intense soul level attraction DG ever experienced— (22:06) Is this too spicy for this pod or even relevant to ‘soul intercourse’? [soc-lasts clumsily attempt to read the room]— (30:18) How we’ve approached meeting the soulmate and David’s challenges with this idea as a 9— (41:57) The insecurities of 9 and other attachment types getting in the way of love— (44:21) How David’s formative years and attraction dynamics with 'mothers' contributed to the inner message of not mattering— (57:00) Attachment types, individuation, and not feeling deserving of love— (1:01:58) Safeguarding your heart for the possibility of soulmate love
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BHE 071 - SOUL::INTERCOURSE [Part 1]

We’re getting all up in your soul g-spot this week, exploring the different dimensions of sexuality and chemistry. How to meet someone energetically during sex.
— (4:02)  Emeka’s revelation about his sexuality  — (9:32)  How Nancy senses a sexual partner’s energy and soul — (16:10) Soul level attraction and introverted vs extroverted sexuality— (27:14) What makes good sex good?— (28:08) The feminine sexuality of being penetrated and taking someone’s energy in— (30:36) Nancy’s experience of having soul intercourse with her partner— (34:57) How to deeply meet someone sexually— (37:44) Self-love to deepen a sense of your body’s arousal — (42:57) Being present and naked with yourself in order to energetically meet someone— (45:05) The masculine having reverence for feminine energy and surrendering to body to body chemistry
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BHE 070 - LOVELINE #4: Sexual Kinks And Fantasies

This week we’re getting hormonal with your submitted horny kinks and sexual fantasies. Hide yo kids, it’s about get hot in here.
— (3:56) David’s ‘Daddy who buys shit for stockholms’ kink— (10:14) Breeding kink and sexual selection— (21:30) Uncontrollable desire for a woman who loves her hubby— (23:52) Being forced to watch my partner have sex with someone I hate— (27:42) Animal magnetism and sex matching my energy— (35:26) Service topping 8
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