Big Hormone Enneagram

BHE 176 - THE LAST HEART

New insights emerging on having your heart center last.
— (4:22) Alexandra’s new insights about heart-last and image being a cultivated sense of identity — (12:27) Being a social-blind image type / reinforcing who you are to yourself— (16:28) Painting your self-portrait and updating how things reflect on you — (23:18) Aesthetic of personality and unearthing an ocean of values— (26:08) What does neglecting the heart center cost you?— (33:02) Heart last and 4 fix reflex to wince away from being seen— (39:00) Heart lasts underestimate how what they’re doing will cause them to feel shame— (44:33) Events of the world as heart-last phenomenons— (56:20) Heart last and what’s valuable about me
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BHE 175 - why so reactive ???

We’re back at it looking at reactive harmonics.
— (3:22) Reactive vs frustration / harmonics is how we resolve a situation— (7:16) ‘Hopeful’ better describes what positive outlook is up to / reactive aims to uncover where the other is located under duress — (9:51) Katt Williams and 6 exposing the worst case scenario — (12:34) 4/6/8 testing to see if you can hang with negative realness— (19:54) Reactive types are provoking the authenticity of each center— (26:09) 4 vs 8 purging poison and creating space— (32:35) The audacity of hope for positive types— (40:35) Do we need a better name for reactive?— (48:56) 6 is the most psycho reactive type / Katt and reactive 6 comics— (1:03:39) M6GA
To sign up for John’s 2024 Egypt Trip visit:https://www.egyptretreats.com/
Enneagrammer — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Katt Williams, Charles Bukowski, and Bermuda Overlays and get typed at: https://www.enneagrammer.com/
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
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BHE 174 - 2023 END OF YEAR WRAP PARTY

Looking back on 2023 with libations. Happy new year you filthy animals.
— (2:20) Our impressions of BHE year IV / shifts in the business of the enneagram— (8:31) Why interest in the enneagram is taking a dip — (14:27) Do people know about BHE or nah— (20:06) Enneagram reddit thinks Naranjo is the truth— (27:31) Highlights of 2023 episodes / the zones and the 7— (38:39) Social pain and the attachment support groups— (43:00) Frustration underlines the suffering of the personality— (49:41) Plans for 2024— (59:20) Love is in the air / beauty to scary ratio— (1:01:52) The return of trump— (1:13:25) Igbo spirituality market days
To sign up for John’s 2024 Egypt Trip visit:https://www.egyptretreats.com/
Enneagrammer — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Malcolm Gladwell, Charles Bukowski, and 269 Trifix . Join to watch typing classes and get typed at: https://www.enneagrammer.com/
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
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BHE 173 - BIG WINTER FLICKS

Chatting the enneagram in the movies.
— (2:48) Non-romantic sexual instinct in Suspiria / sx-middle teases / Twin Peaks’ weird sp/sx— (10:32) Holy Mountain and Enter the Void as sexual instinct movies— (14:39) Paul Thomas Anderson and attachment stories— (16:38) How rare sexual is in the stacking / most movies are sp/so / Ari Aster makes deranged sp/so movies— (21:08) Get Out and Parasite as so/sp / what social type movies focus on / 10 reasons why Wes Anderson sucks— (32:52) Passages sx/so 6 attachment madness— (44:39) The Assistant sp/so bermuda hell— (49:23) 8 directors / Possessor and hexad with attachment fixes / Tyler Perry’s a 2 director— (56:47) 5 directors / Kubrick as so/sx— (1:03:53) sp/so body gore, zombies, and romance— (1:06:57) sx/sp romance flicks
To sign up for John’s 2024 Egypt Trip visit:https://www.egyptretreats.com/
Enneagrammer — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Matt Rife, Andre 3000, and 269 Trifix . Join to watch typing classes and get typed at: https://www.enneagrammer.com/
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Help us buy new equipment here:venmo - @bighormonehttps://paypal.me/bighormone
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BHE 172 - ASTROCARTOGRAPHY - ODINAKA

Od’s with us this week to dive into the interesting world of astrocartography.
— (10:12) What is astrocartography and how’d we get into this?— (16:08) Moving to significant areas on your astro map— (21:17) How to create your astrocartography map / what the circles on the map mean— (25:25) John’s lines confirm his love affair with Egypt— (29:04) DG’s meetings with dark men and misadventures in Africa— (34:02) Alexandra’s lines and the birthplace of her love— (38:12) And reconnecting with her spanish roots— (44:57) How far away is too far from a line?— (49:00) What it means when your sun line goes through a place— (57:03) How to look at this with your LocalSpace map— (1:05:20) What your mercury line goeing through somewhere means
To sign up for John’s 2024 Egypt Trip visit:https://www.egyptretreats.com/
Enneagrammer — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on 269 Trifix, Andre 3000, and Jeremy Fragrance. Join to watch typing classes and get typed at: https://www.enneagrammer.com/
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
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BHE 171 - PART2.OPS SOCIAL ROLES - IKRAM

Continuing where we left off with Ikram and the Objective Personality Social Types. We’ve been typed #3 for DG, Alexandra, and John. #2 for Emeka. #4 for Ikram.
— (6:16) The sp/so framing of the social roles concept makes it smaller / does social roles have any implications for the sexual instinct?— (8:40) Emeka vs John sx/sp with responsibility vs specialization— (11:43) Flex masculine identity vs Friends feminine identity— (18:23) Specialization and responsibility minimize personhood in lieu of what i’m doing— (20:40) Responsibility-specialization tidal waves— (34:01) What is responsibility vs specialization — (40:35) Sexaul display as a Social Role 1 and 4— (50:48) What you need to integrate for each social role
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DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Cesar Millan, The Stockholm Trifix, and Jada Pinket Smith. Join to watch typing classes: https://www.enneagrammer.com/daa
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
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BHE 170 - OPS SOCIAL ROLES - IKRAM

We’re talking about the Objective Personality Social Types this week with Ikram. We’ve been typed #3 for DG, Alexandra, and John. #2 for Emeka. #4 for Ikram.
— (7:55) *Gasp* John is taking responsibility / intro to OPS social roles— (14:18) What does flex mean?— (20:03) Flex vs friends— (27:39) Friend saviors get their flex through connections with people / Flex alienates friends— (31:44) Distribution of social roles / Jesus is a #1?— (34:01) What is responsibility vs specialization — (40:01) How specialization last shows in Emeka— (43:38) Your social role is the position you take in a social dynamic— (45:36) Flex last for Ikram / Flex last doesn’t mean a lack of drive or ambition— (56:32) What’s specialization?— (1:04:20) #2 flexes by making things happen for everyone— (1:08:31) #4 friends have flex by not having flex— (1:12:48) How your social role contrasts with your enneagram type
To sign up for John’s 2024 Egypt Trip visit:https://www.egyptretreats.com/
DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Cesar Millan, Tabatha Coffee, and Jada Pinket Smith. Join to watch typing classes: https://www.enneagrammer.com/daa
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Help us buy new equipment here:venmo - @bighormonehttps://paypal.me/bighormone
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BHE 169 - [LIVE POD] GOATS AND MODELS IN THE BACKROOMS

Live from Brooklyn backrooms answering your questions.Watch here: https://youtu.be/WlHQcWEglks
— (2:32) How important is trifix order?— (12:10) What feels like boring chores to the sexual instinct?— (17:31) How DG experiences his lines of connection as a 9 with no attachment fixes— (25:26) What cakes would each of us bake?— (30:13) How to rizz up the 3-7 stem?— (36:56) What are the holy ideas and higher centers?— (45:10) Insights from the baaaack roooommms - attachment is the seed for object relations— (52:39) Is so/sx what is represented on all the memes on extraversion?
To sign up for John’s 2024 Egypt Trip visit:https://www.egyptretreats.com/
DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Tom Waits, Snobby vs Peopley, and Tabatha Coffee. Join to watch typing classes: https://www.enneagrammer.com/daa
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
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BHE 168 - THE SHAME

The wet heart types. Live pod this weekend. Be on the lookout for details.
— (4:35) Assertive hexad types being out of touch with their shame— (6:26) Shame is not a great word for what the heart types are experiencing / identity needing to feel special— (12:57) Heart types needing to reinforcing pictures to feel a felt sense of specialness— (15:17) Confusing heart type shame with feeling ashamed / shame is the emotion of being out of alignment with value— (25:30) 4 and 4-fix shame— (34:37) Denigration and disgust is the 4 fix reaction to shame— (42:41) 3 and 3-fix shame / being a 3 is like climbing up a downward escalator — (46:10) 3 vs 4 fix compliments and value recognition— (58:32) 2 and 2 fix shame— (1:02:14) 2s supply their own validation— (1:09:07) 2 reaction to shame is to go straight to moral rage and indignation
To sign up for John’s 2024 Egypt Trip visit:https://www.egyptretreats.com/
DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Katie Porter, Snobby vs Peopley, and Iyanla. Join to watch typing classes: https://www.enneagrammer.com/daa
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
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BHE 167 - THE RAGE

The fuming and stewing gut types.
— (4:03) Alexandra wants to be led when she’s in the mood— (9:05) David is very angry at the sun— (16:49) And the plague of bread people— (20:35) Alexandra finally admits she has a rage problem— (30:30) Emeka’s rage is the fuel that keeps the car running people over— (34:25) 8 vs 1 fix anger and boundaries / the games begin once the 8 lets you in— (42:41) 4s and 8s are drama queen inversions of each other— (45:59) The cutting denigrating rage of 1s— (50:02) 1s think they know the one best way to do everything
To sign up for John’s 2024 Egypt Trip visit:https://www.egyptretreats.com/
DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Snobby vs Peopley, Reactive types, and 7w6 vs 6w7. Join to watch typing classes: https://www.enneagrammer.com/daa
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Help us buy new equipment here:venmo - @bighormonehttps://paypal.me/bighormone
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