Big Hormone Enneagram
⚠️DISCLAIMER: This enneagram podcast contains highly charged elements. Contents may cause unexpected states of psychological depth and trigger unconventional insight. Listener discretion is advised. Hosted by John Luckovich, Emeka Okorafor, David Gray, Alexandra Arroyo-Acevedo
Episodes
Friday Aug 25, 2023
BHE 163 - THE SP/SX & SX/SP ROASTATHON - Courtney Joseph & Kristen
Friday Aug 25, 2023
Friday Aug 25, 2023
A horde of social types attempt a roast of the social-blind legends.
— (7:55) Let the roasts begin — (10:50) Creeps and Homewreckers— (13:19) The limited personas and channels of engagement of social blinds— (14:33) Joseph’s social 4 impressions of working with social blinds / social blinds being terrible judges of people— (20:21) Podcasting in the dark vs the social of communicating and being perceived on video— (29:36) Are the social types actually roasting the social-blinds? / social blind roasts sound like personal grievances — (37:30) SX/SP’s annoying fixation on romantic relationships and inappropriate sexual heat— (42:50) The social blind life or death objectifying approach to social connections / the stagnation around sx flavor— (50:14) Missing out and not participating in the field of relatedness and social co-regulation— (1:03:10) Social blind obliviousness is hilarious and freeing— (1:08:14) The personal personhood of social vs the personal flavor of sexual — (1:10:36) Personal anecdotes of the feeling in the body of each blindspot— (1:15:26) Why the social blinds are so amazing— (1:23:29) What the social blinds hate about social blinds
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DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Couple’s Therapy, Bad Bunny, Marianne Williamson. Join to watch classes at: https://www.enneagrammer.com/daa
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Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Master the basics with John and Josh’s new foundational enneagram school. Sign up for their 6-part class — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
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Wednesday Aug 16, 2023
BHE 162 - SOCIAL PAIN AND HEARTBREAKS - Ikram & Kristen
Wednesday Aug 16, 2023
Wednesday Aug 16, 2023
We’re joined by two social types, Ikram & Kristen, to explore the pain and suffering of the social instinct.
— (12:33) Post-zone reflections on social pain and longing— (16:44) Potential dangers in social space— (22:48) The naivety of social-blinds with the social game— (26:50) Why people tear others down to prop themselves up— (29:47) Social is how we project our inner identities and shadows out into the world— (36:18) Dysfunctional social sabotage and attachment dynamics— (40:29) Our nervous systems are regulated by other people / the healing power of connection— (49:30) Owning your own social danger and parasocial obsessions— (1:08:33) Personal encounters with social wounding
Get the last spot on Alexandra and Josh’s new Attachment Support Group:https://www.theenneagramschool.com/attachment-support-group
DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Couple’s Therapy, iShowSpeed, Marianne Williamson. And get typed at https://www.enneagrammer.com
20% OFF -END OF SUMMER- DISCOUNT ON ALL ORDERS BEFORE SEPT 1ST:\/:USE CODE SMR23 DURING CHECKOUT
Consider supporting us with a donation if you enjoyed the show:https://paypal.me/bighormonevenmo - @bighormonecashapp - $bighormone
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Master the basics with John and Josh’s new foundational enneagram school. Sign up for their 6-part class — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
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Saturday Aug 05, 2023
BHE 161 - THE ATTACHMENT SUPPORT GROUP - Josh Lavine
Saturday Aug 05, 2023
Saturday Aug 05, 2023
Introducing the attachment support group, brought to you by Alexandra and Josh.
— (12:36) Why do attachment types need support?— (14:18) A brief overview on what attachment types are— (20:17) What accountability means for attachment types / waking up from self-abandonment — (29:00) Attaching vs preference / the gift of attachment is flexibility— (33:52) The value of a group that facilitates self-seeing and self-holding— (40:17) A space to witness and acknowledge grief— (42:30) BHE is a hexad support group— (48:58) The goal isn’t to become like hexad types— (55:05) The format and bullet point topics for the classes
For more on the Attachment Support Group visit:https://www.theenneagramschool.com/attachment-support-group
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Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Master the basics with John and Josh’s new foundational enneagram school. Sign up for their 6-part class — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Theo Von, Couple’s therapy, Vincent Gallow. And get typed at https://www.enneagrammer.com
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
Saturday Jul 29, 2023
BHE 160 - THE SO/SX & SX/SO ROASTATHON
Saturday Jul 29, 2023
Saturday Jul 29, 2023
We’re back roasting the crackhead and lovebomb babies of the enneagram.
— (22:17) Why do we call self-pres blinds babies? / Overly dependent on the attention of other people— (26:24) Self-pres is self-regulation and self-containment. Not just paying your bills and taking care of yourself— (29:54) Difficulty making long term choices / a blindspot for one’s limitations— (34:18) Sp-blinds identifying with their capacity to be affected by others— (37:30) Sp blinds still stuck in high school / connection and chemistry without animal reality— (41:58) Slippery conversational amnesia— (43:47) Hobosexuals and so/sx frivolous bling display / personality as a juicy social ornament— (52:10) Social activism but make it cool / best friends way too fast— (54:57) sx/so mist is just mist / catfish lovebombers— (58:43) DG’s compatibility with sx/so and being stuck in yearning / love in the air without a foundation to grow— (1:03:42) sx/so bimbofication
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Master the basics with John and Josh’s new foundational enneagram school. Sign up for their 6-part class — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Keke Palmer, SX Heart Types, Vincent Gallow. And get typed at https://www.enneagrammer.com
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
Thursday Jul 20, 2023
BHE 159 - [LIVE POD] AN ORAL HISTORY OF BHE/EU
Thursday Jul 20, 2023
Thursday Jul 20, 2023
Watch the live pod on youtube:https://youtu.be/lhaDNCSuwW4
— (18:41) What we’ve contributed to the enneagram as a group— (23:18) Josh leads us through piecing together the history of the group— (37:44) DG’s instinct cards and the birth of the collage exercise — (44:34) How Alexandra found the group and typing meltdowns— (53:51) Courtney finding the group and her object relations contributions— (59:12) How COVID led to the first zone and John met Alexandra— (1:04:48) How did Josh find the group and began creating with the enneagram?— (1:22:33) How Alexandra came to join the pod?— (1:33:20) How the Kristen and the dream team made connections between dreams and the enneagram and started the SinSomnia podcast
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Master the basics with John and Josh’s new foundational enneagram school. Sign up for their 6-part class — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on SX Head Types, SX Heart Types, Vincent Gallow. And get typed at https://www.enneagrammer.com
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
Saturday Jul 01, 2023
BHE 158 - THE INSTINCT STACKING ROASTATHON - SP/SO & SO/SP
Saturday Jul 01, 2023
Saturday Jul 01, 2023
— (10:40) Welcome to our roast of the sx-blinds— (15:52) so/sp are way too serious and stuck-up about relational categories and context— (21:40) so/sp’s do it with their gloves on in the museum — (25:57) The power drive of so/sp / lineage and geneology?!— (30:35) What we like about so/sp reluctantly— (37:38) The roast of sp/so begins - the fixation on stuff— (43:52) sp/so collectors and hoarders— (49:30) sp/so’s killing the vibe with their day to day minutia and gross body stuff— (1:03:16) What we like about sp/so
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Master the basics with John and Josh’s new foundational enneagram school. Sign up for their 6-part class — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on SX Head Types, SO/SP VS SP/SO SX blindspot, SX Gut types. And get typed at https://www.enneagrammer.com
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
Thursday Jun 22, 2023
BHE 157 - THE CATFISH ABYSS
Thursday Jun 22, 2023
Thursday Jun 22, 2023
— (6:30) Peering into the catfish void and the starvation of connection— (13:10) The failure of social in the west and the nuclear family / catfish as an internet age phenomenon — (19:50) Soft white underbelly and the horrors that arise from a lack of community— (23:42) What’s in it for the catfisher?— (27:13) We’re all catfishing a little bit out of fear of rejection— (31:15) The thirst to reveal ourselves to someone and falling in love with AI— (33:18) Our wounds and missing pieces make us vulnerable— (40:26) We’re doing an episode on the art of loving book— (46:50) Akashic records and aliens genetically modifying the human species
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram offerings at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Master the basics with John and Josh’s new foundational enneagram school. Sign up for their 6-part class — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on SX Polarity,Genesis Porridge, SX Gut types. And get typed at https://www.enneagrammer.com
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
Sunday Jun 11, 2023
BHE 156 - WE GIVE YOU 3-WINGS
Sunday Jun 11, 2023
Sunday Jun 11, 2023
Our reluctant cult leader finally decided to pick up where she left off.
— (12:24) Alexandra’s intro to 3w2 vs 3w4— (16:06) 3w4 self as exemplary object vs 3w2 self as interpersonal star — (18:07) 3w4 bitchy frustration vs 3w2 schmoozy rejection— (32:00) Are 3w2’s better manipulators than 3w4’s?— (38:00) 3w2 vs 3w4 singers / which is more of a cameleon?— (40:49) Positive vs reactive wing— (46:58) Superego offerings of 3w2— (49:24) What cringes Nancy out about other 3w4s— (52:50) 3w2s ask better questions
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram offerings at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Get unstuck with John and Josh’s new foundational enneagram school. Sign up for their 6-part class — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on SX Polarity,The Whiny Tears Trifix, Genesis Porridge. And get typed at https://www.enneagrammer.com
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
Friday Jun 02, 2023
BHE 155 - THE LAST SHALL BE FIRST
Friday Jun 02, 2023
Friday Jun 02, 2023
— (4:16) What it’s like to have frustration, rejection, or attachment last— (14:26) Emeka’s rejection/frustration refined border freakouts— (23:16) DG & Alexandra are rejection last ghostly 9s — (25:22) John’s frustration/rejection locked down non-personhood— (32:54) What 4s with more attachment are like— (42:55) Attachment/rejection are stable negotiators — (48:56) Gut lasts are unhinged — (50:42) Head lasts are impulsive creatures— (54:40) Heart lasts are dead inside
Support and fund the new illustrated trifix book project by DG and Kristen and get your copy before time runs out:https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/inkstoryrebel/enneagram-trifix-book
Check out the SinSomnia podcast hosted by Kristen, Kaisa, and Sammy: https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvknTdatmtSvW8LGMCM?si=e499a19ac3544a65
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram offerings at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Get unstuck and practice inner awareness with John and Josh’s new foundational enneagram school. Sign up for their 6-part class — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on SX Polarity,The Whiny Tears Trifix, Leonard Cowen. And get typed at https://www.enneagrammer.com/
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
Thursday May 25, 2023
BHE 154 - LOVELINE BLINDERS
Thursday May 25, 2023
Thursday May 25, 2023
— (1:27) Am I just attracted to 9s because they’re soft?— (12:41) ♫ The softest place on earth ♫— (16:53) What do people like about hooking up with 8s or 1s?— (25:33) How do I help my 7 process grief?— (34:08) The fixated 9 crusade around healing— (39:38) Why are people so obsessed with image when image types are so rare? / what’s it like to have each center last?— (52:33) Center lasts and different O.R. last episodes coming soon— (54:48) Important philosophical discussions on milfdom
Check out Julie’s fall retreat, Alive in Your Medicine, at riverbendcoaching.com
Support and fund the new illustrated trifix book project by DG and Kristen and get your copy before time runs out:https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/inkstoryrebel/enneagram-trifix-book
Watch Nancy’s core 3 interview with Josh on What It’s Like to be You:https://youtu.be/u4WTC0GM8lI
Check out the SinSomnia podcast hosted by Kristen, Kaisa, and Sammy: https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvknTdatmtSvW8LGMCM?si=e499a19ac3544a65
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram offerings at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Get unstuck and practice inner awareness with John and Josh’s new foundational enneagram school. Sign up for their 6-part class — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble and attend his weekly study group:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
https://www.johnluckovich.com/the-study-group
DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on the Milf Manor, Lin Manuel-Miranda, Leonard Cowen. And get typed at https://www.enneagrammer.com/
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
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