Big Hormone Enneagram

BHE 166 - THE FEAR

Delving into the fear and anxiety of the head types.
— (3:57) 5 fear of being contaminated— (10:40) Avarice is a sense that personhood isn’t robust enough to be fully exposed in the world— (11:30) The 8 line to 5 and the 2 line to 8— (16:30) Ways to work on 5 avarice— (19:18) 5 fear as one way endless monologues— (24:17) How Emeka and John experience 5 fix fear— (33:52) 6 fear of fear itself— (37:02) 6 considering all possibilities / fear disguised as responsibility and logic— (46:48) 6 preemptive call outs and self-deprecation / the essence quality of 6 is to be the universe’s eye— (50:33) 5 subjectivity vs 6 objectivity— (57:37) Toxic 7 fear— (1:06:30) 7 is running from the limitations of what is— (1:10:47) 7s need to get in touch with their own generation instead of just consuming— (1:15:04) 7 anxiety showing up as manic consumption
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BHE 165 - S O C I A L Instincity

— (8:25) Riffing on new terms for social / resonance and frequency— (15:08) Social as a 3D matrix / What is the big deal with what social types are looking for?— (20:15) We feel social chemistry with those who we feel regulated by— (23:17) Social boners and turn ons / the sensation of social in the body— (26:42) Social-blinds aren’t updating social impressions as the connection evolves— (30:03) Do the social-blinds confuse sexual attraction with socal attraction?— (39:52) How do the social-blinds recognize when they’re being cared for or that they care?— (48:03) Social resonance is either there or it’s not— (51:58) Are we not seeing our social impact? / leaving behind a graveyard of missed connections— (1:00:12) The essence of each instinct and it’s distorted
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BHE 164 - ** FOURFOURSTRATION INTENSIFIES ** - JOHNXJOSEPH

A sexual 4w5 and a social 4w3 walk into a bar.
— (4:21) Vulnerability and sensitivity as a 4— (7:21) The difference between 9 sensitivity and 4 sensitivity— (10:55) Type 4 is over-individuating to express singular identity— (13:30) Joseph won’t laugh at your jokes / 4 image ego self-editing and controlling natural heart expression— (16:37) John’s 4 frustration shows up in his romantic relationship and creativity— (21:05) The crippling self-limiting image rigidity of 4— (25:06) Joseph’s social 4 frustration and shame with social chemistry— (29:57) Getting dumb and allowing humiliation as a pathway to loosening up 4 image rigidity— (46:02) Feeling deficient about getting into the body— (52:27) Getting embodied in sexuality— (57:51) Timeless sense of identity of heart types— (59:26) Dat sweet syrupy line to 2 overcorrecting for being self-absorbed 
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BHE 163 - THE SP/SX & SX/SP ROASTATHON - Courtney Joseph & Kristen

A horde of social types attempt a roast of the social-blind legends.
— (7:55) Let the roasts begin — (10:50) Creeps and Homewreckers— (13:19) The limited personas and channels of engagement of social blinds— (14:33) Joseph’s social 4 impressions of working with social blinds / social blinds being terrible judges of people— (20:21) Podcasting in the dark vs the social of communicating and being perceived on video— (29:36) Are the social types actually roasting the social-blinds? / social blind roasts sound like personal grievances — (37:30) SX/SP’s annoying fixation on romantic relationships and inappropriate sexual heat— (42:50) The social blind life or death objectifying approach to social connections / the stagnation around sx flavor— (50:14) Missing out and not participating in the field of relatedness and social co-regulation— (1:03:10) Social blind obliviousness is hilarious and freeing— (1:08:14) The personal personhood of social vs the personal flavor of sexual — (1:10:36) Personal anecdotes of the feeling in the body of each blindspot— (1:15:26) Why the social blinds are so amazing— (1:23:29) What the social blinds hate about social blinds
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BHE 162 - SOCIAL PAIN AND HEARTBREAKS - Ikram & Kristen

We’re joined by two social types, Ikram & Kristen, to explore the pain and suffering of the social instinct.
— (12:33) Post-zone reflections on social pain and longing— (16:44) Potential dangers in social space— (22:48) The naivety of social-blinds with the social game— (26:50) Why people tear others down to prop themselves up— (29:47) Social is how we project our inner identities and shadows out into the world— (36:18) Dysfunctional social sabotage and attachment dynamics— (40:29) Our nervous systems are regulated by other people / the healing power of connection— (49:30) Owning your own social danger and parasocial obsessions— (1:08:33) Personal encounters with social wounding
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BHE 161 - THE ATTACHMENT SUPPORT GROUP - Josh Lavine

Introducing the attachment support group, brought to you by Alexandra and Josh.
— (12:36) Why do attachment types need support?— (14:18) A brief overview on what attachment types are— (20:17) What accountability means for attachment types / waking up from self-abandonment — (29:00) Attaching vs preference / the gift of attachment is flexibility— (33:52) The value of a group that facilitates self-seeing and self-holding— (40:17) A space to witness and acknowledge grief— (42:30) BHE is a hexad support group— (48:58) The goal isn’t to become like hexad types— (55:05) The format and bullet point topics for the classes
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BHE 160 - THE SO/SX & SX/SO ROASTATHON

We’re back roasting the crackhead and lovebomb babies of the enneagram.
— (22:17) Why do we call self-pres blinds babies? / Overly dependent on the attention of other people— (26:24) Self-pres is self-regulation and self-containment. Not just paying your bills and taking care of yourself— (29:54) Difficulty making long term choices / a blindspot for one’s limitations— (34:18) Sp-blinds identifying with their capacity to be affected by others— (37:30) Sp blinds still stuck in high school / connection and chemistry without animal reality— (41:58) Slippery conversational amnesia— (43:47) Hobosexuals and so/sx frivolous bling display / personality as a juicy social ornament— (52:10) Social activism but make it cool / best friends way too fast— (54:57) sx/so mist is just mist / catfish lovebombers— (58:43) DG’s compatibility with sx/so and being stuck in yearning / love in the air without a foundation to grow— (1:03:42) sx/so bimbofication  
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BHE 159 - [LIVE POD] AN ORAL HISTORY OF BHE/EU

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— (18:41) What we’ve contributed to the enneagram as a group— (23:18) Josh leads us through piecing together the history of the group— (37:44) DG’s instinct cards and the birth of the collage exercise — (44:34) How Alexandra found the group and typing meltdowns— (53:51) Courtney finding the group and her object relations contributions— (59:12) How COVID led to the first zone and John met Alexandra— (1:04:48) How did Josh find the group and began creating with the enneagram?— (1:22:33) How Alexandra came to join the pod?— (1:33:20) How the Kristen and the dream team made connections between dreams and the enneagram and started the SinSomnia podcast
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BHE 158 - THE INSTINCT STACKING ROASTATHON - SP/SO & SO/SP

— (10:40) Welcome to our roast of the sx-blinds— (15:52) so/sp are way too serious and stuck-up about relational categories and context— (21:40) so/sp’s do it with their gloves on in the museum — (25:57) The power drive of so/sp / lineage and geneology?!— (30:35) What we like about so/sp reluctantly— (37:38) The roast of sp/so begins - the fixation on stuff— (43:52) sp/so collectors and hoarders— (49:30) sp/so’s killing the vibe with their day to day minutia and gross body stuff— (1:03:16) What we like about sp/so
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BHE 157 - THE CATFISH ABYSS

— (6:30)  Peering into the catfish void and the starvation of connection— (13:10) The failure of social in the west and the nuclear family / catfish as an internet age phenomenon — (19:50) Soft white underbelly and the horrors that arise from a lack of community— (23:42) What’s in it for the catfisher?— (27:13) We’re all catfishing a little bit out of fear of rejection— (31:15) The thirst to reveal ourselves to someone and falling in love with AI— (33:18) Our wounds and missing pieces make us vulnerable— (40:26) We’re doing an episode on the art of loving book— (46:50) Akashic records and aliens genetically modifying the human species
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