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Sunday Jun 11, 2023
Sunday Jun 11, 2023
Our reluctant cult leader finally decided to pick up where she left off.
— (12:24) Alexandra’s intro to 3w2 vs 3w4— (16:06) 3w4 self as exemplary object vs 3w2 self as interpersonal star — (18:07) 3w4 bitchy frustration vs 3w2 schmoozy rejection— (32:00) Are 3w2’s better manipulators than 3w4’s?— (38:00) 3w2 vs 3w4 singers / which is more of a cameleon?— (40:49) Positive vs reactive wing— (46:58) Superego offerings of 3w2— (49:24) What cringes Nancy out about other 3w4s— (52:50) 3w2s ask better questions
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram offerings at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Get unstuck with John and Josh’s new foundational enneagram school. Sign up for their 6-part class — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on SX Polarity,The Whiny Tears Trifix, Genesis Porridge. And get typed at https://www.enneagrammer.com
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
Friday Jun 02, 2023
Friday Jun 02, 2023
— (4:16) What it’s like to have frustration, rejection, or attachment last— (14:26) Emeka’s rejection/frustration refined border freakouts— (23:16) DG & Alexandra are rejection last ghostly 9s — (25:22) John’s frustration/rejection locked down non-personhood— (32:54) What 4s with more attachment are like— (42:55) Attachment/rejection are stable negotiators — (48:56) Gut lasts are unhinged — (50:42) Head lasts are impulsive creatures— (54:40) Heart lasts are dead inside
Support and fund the new illustrated trifix book project by DG and Kristen and get your copy before time runs out:https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/inkstoryrebel/enneagram-trifix-book
Check out the SinSomnia podcast hosted by Kristen, Kaisa, and Sammy: https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvknTdatmtSvW8LGMCM?si=e499a19ac3544a65
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram offerings at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Get unstuck and practice inner awareness with John and Josh’s new foundational enneagram school. Sign up for their 6-part class — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on SX Polarity,The Whiny Tears Trifix, Leonard Cowen. And get typed at https://www.enneagrammer.com/
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
Thursday May 25, 2023
Thursday May 25, 2023
— (1:27) Am I just attracted to 9s because they’re soft?— (12:41) ♫ The softest place on earth ♫— (16:53) What do people like about hooking up with 8s or 1s?— (25:33) How do I help my 7 process grief?— (34:08) The fixated 9 crusade around healing— (39:38) Why are people so obsessed with image when image types are so rare? / what’s it like to have each center last?— (52:33) Center lasts and different O.R. last episodes coming soon— (54:48) Important philosophical discussions on milfdom
Check out Julie’s fall retreat, Alive in Your Medicine, at riverbendcoaching.com
Support and fund the new illustrated trifix book project by DG and Kristen and get your copy before time runs out:https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/inkstoryrebel/enneagram-trifix-book
Watch Nancy’s core 3 interview with Josh on What It’s Like to be You:https://youtu.be/u4WTC0GM8lI
Check out the SinSomnia podcast hosted by Kristen, Kaisa, and Sammy: https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvknTdatmtSvW8LGMCM?si=e499a19ac3544a65
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram offerings at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Get unstuck and practice inner awareness with John and Josh’s new foundational enneagram school. Sign up for their 6-part class — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble and attend his weekly study group:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
https://www.johnluckovich.com/the-study-group
DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on the Milf Manor, Lin Manuel-Miranda, Leonard Cowen. And get typed at https://www.enneagrammer.com/
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
Wednesday May 17, 2023
Wednesday May 17, 2023
— (13:24) Noticing people from an attraction lens / sexual blind weird algebra— (18:32) Trying to describe what attraction is without using social signifiers— (25:09) The chemical infection of the sexual instinct and the drug analogy— (28:03) What happens after the merging of sexual?— (30:55) The mercurial growth element of sexual chemistry / sexual is seeking or creating polarities that remix boundaries— (36:44) Gender neutrality vs polarity / Sexual is engaging the tension between various polarities— (44:12) Disagreement and disruption as a form of sexual polarity— (53:06) Your porn stash as a truth serum for your sexual instinct
Check out Julie’s fall retreat, Alive in Your Medicine, at riverbendcoaching.com
Support and fund the new illustrated trifix book project by DG and Kristen and get your copy before time runs out:https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/inkstoryrebel/enneagram-trifix-book
Watch Nancy’s core 3 interview with Josh on What It’s Like to be You:https://youtu.be/u4WTC0GM8lI
Check out the SinSomnia podcast hosted by Kristen, Kaisa, and Sammy: https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvknTdatmtSvW8LGMCM?si=e499a19ac3544a65
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram offerings at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Get unstuck and practice inner awareness with John and Josh’s new foundational enneagram school. Sign up for their 6-part class — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble and attend his weekly study group:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
https://www.johnluckovich.com/the-study-group
DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on the Milf Manor, Lin Manuel-Miranda, Leonard Cowen. And get typed at https://www.enneagrammer.com/
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
Sunday May 07, 2023
Sunday May 07, 2023
Super spreader hormoan instinct talks.
— (7:47) Nancy chimes in on instinct love languages and what men really want but won’t say they want— (13:01) Sex work revealing missing needs and desires / strip club talk— (20:28) What’s up with America’s hyper-sexuality vs sexual conservatism — (25:52) Culture as an instinctual meme / Latin culture drawing from Aztec mythology culturally integrates more sexual instinct— (29:06) Sex at Dawn and the creation of monogamy / the sexual threat of trans-racial mixing to culture, legacy and blood lines— (42:32) Hookup chronicles and sp/so sexuality
Watch Nancy’s interview with Josh on What It’s Like to be You:https://youtu.be/u4WTC0GM8lI
Check out the SinSomnia podcast hosted by Kristen, Kaisa, and Sammy: https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvknTdatmtSvW8LGMCM?si=e499a19ac3544a65
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram offerings at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Check out John and Josh’s new foundational enneagram school. And sign up for their now 6-part class — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble and attend his weekly study group:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
https://www.johnluckovich.com/the-study-group
DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types more clearly. Watch recent classes on the 359 Flat line trifix , Margot Robbie, Type Twins. And get typed at https://www.enneagrammer.com/
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
Sunday Apr 23, 2023
Sunday Apr 23, 2023
Dearly beloved / we’re gathered here today / to love through this thing called instinct
— (2:59) We make our dominant instinct a religion / how we manipulate what love is through our dominant instinct— (5:47) Integrating the social instinct’s verbal-contextual expressions of love / Alexandra’s ‘love cup’ religion propaganda— (15:03) Zooming out and talking about the relationship meets non-negotiable needs of love / sp/sx wants a smaller and smaller intimacy cave— (21:09) Overcoming the fear of the blindspot instinct / the analogy of social as light / ’socially slutty’— (30:47) Social is seeing yourself as a three dimensional human. Personality and character traits, not just your utility.— (35:53) Alexandra’s war on the sexual instinct and the soc-blinds— (42:12) The toxicity of sexual instinct attraction— (48:32) We could develop something like a instinct composite/synastry chart / let’s flesh out love languages for instincts
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram offerings at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Check out John and Josh’s new formal enneagram school. And sign up for their now 6-part class — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble and attend his weekly study group:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
https://www.johnluckovich.com/the-study-group
DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types more clearly. Watch recent classes on the 359 Flat line trifix , Margot Robbie, Jim Morrison. And get typed at https://www.enneagrammer.com/
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
Sunday Apr 16, 2023
Sunday Apr 16, 2023
Deserted by the others, the two lone swordsmen continued into the abyss of the unknown. With only memories of forgotten ancient texts to guide them. These are their stories.
— (5:25) The role of cultural differences in the expression of type / confrontational blunt 9s from other cultures— (12:20) How our early life experiences and environment create an unexpected relationship with certain instincts / Emeka and food— (22:01) Digging up John’s leftover concept of each instinct having a close vs distant optimal distance— (28:28) The difference between 9s merging and sexual instinct merging / instinctual dynamics in relationships— (36:45) Wild topic switch to social-contextual dynamics in dating / race as an overlooked significant contextual layer / female vs male gaze— (43:40) Most people are making sexual choices with social reasons — (50:49) John’s ‘effortlessly masculine’ and Emeka’s black artist with masc/fem interplay— (56:10) When we feel safe those optimal distance polarities dissolve
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram offerings at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Check out John and Josh’s new formal enneagram school. And sign up for their now 6-part class — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble and attend his weekly study group:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
https://www.johnluckovich.com/the-study-group
DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types more clearly. Watch recent classes on the White Lotus, Margot Robbie, Jim Morrison. And get typed at https://www.enneagrammer.com/
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
Sunday Apr 09, 2023
Sunday Apr 09, 2023
Part 2 baby.
— (1:39) The grounded reality of this cult vs the ridiculousness of Holy Hell— (7:45) We’re all vulnerable to sources of idealized parenting— (19:25) The school was for outcasts primed to fall for a parental manipulator— (28:35) 9’s attaching to a story as a form of maintaining psychological comfort— (31:34) We should watch Holy Hell and Wild Country— (39:08) Applications to become part-time BHE slaves are now open
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram offerings at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Check out John and Josh’s new formal enneagram school. And sign up for their now 6-part class — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble and attend his weekly study group:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
https://www.johnluckovich.com/the-study-group
DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types more clearly. Watch recent classes on the White Lotus, the Bermuda trifix, Jim Morrison. And get typed at https://www.enneagrammer.com/
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
Sunday Apr 02, 2023
Sunday Apr 02, 2023
Watch Stolen Youth on Hulu and get into this.
— (5:13) Larry is an 8w9 862 Wouldn’t Hurt a Fly— (9:18) What’s so compelling about a type like Larry?— (13:00) The government and military as social hooks used to manipulate victims— (24:43) Setting an attachment landscape and opening the door for alternative realities with ‘taking responsibility’— (29:53) 8’s leveraging victimhood and why Larry is sp/so— (44:29) Shaping reality with relentless alternative memories / attachment as a survival strategy— (48:39) The seductive pull of a being given a scapegoat for why your life sucks / rejection creating parental dynamics
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram offerings at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Check out John and Josh’s new formal enneagram school. And sign up for their now 6-part class — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble and attend his weekly study group:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
https://www.johnluckovich.com/the-study-group
DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types more clearly. Watch recent classes on the White Lotus, the Bermuda trifix, the DJ trifix. And get typed at https://www.enneagrammer.com/
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
Sunday Mar 26, 2023
Sunday Mar 26, 2023
Check out our prior episodes on objective personality if you haven’t already. John - Ti/Se-CS/P(B) / Alexandra - Se/Fe-PB/S(C) / David - Te/Se-PC/S(B) / Emeka - Se/Te-PC/B(S).
Watch Stolen Youth on Hulu for next week.
— (5:59) 3 Playas vs John’s Play-last / What is Blast— (10:28) Play is co-creative real time learning / PC vs PB— (14:51) Blindspots and tidalwaves / Emeka’s Sleep-last— (17:46) Alexandra and John’s Play vs Play-last relationship dynamic / Emeka’s Play and De as a reclusive 8 rejection type— (21:00) Hopefully eventually the enneagram gets integrated into OPS— (24:04) The mental style of OPS vs the enneagram and typing objectively— (28:59) Consume and Sleep last tidalwaves
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram offerings at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Check out John and Josh’s new formal enneagram school. And sign up for their now 6-part class — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble and attend his weekly study group:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
https://www.johnluckovich.com/the-study-group
DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at typing people and seeing types more clearly. Watch recent classes on Austin Butler, the Bermuda trifix, the DJ trifix. And get typed at https://www.enneagrammer.com/
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
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