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BHE 146 - II.SCRATCH MY SOUL::Intercourse

Cont’d.
— (6:02) This is now a 9 enabling self-pres podcast— (11:26) Become a hope machine / lift some weights— (18:14) We should do an episode on the self-pres love language— (21:11) John’s sleep vs Emeka’s sleep last as recluse cavemen— (26:29) Tackling big life topics through the lens of the enneagram / most relationship advice is missing the thing it most needs - the sexual instinct— (31:15) Finding your attraction orientation apart from what’s generally accepted as attractive
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram offerings at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Check out John and Josh’s new formal enneagram school. And sign up for their now 6-part class — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble and attend his weekly study group:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
https://www.johnluckovich.com/the-study-group
DAA — Refining your intuition of the types to see them more clearly and become a more accurate typer. Watch recent classes on 3 vs 6, 3 vs 9, the DJ trifix special. And get typed at https://www.enneagrammer.com/daa
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message

BHE 145 - SCRATCH MY SOUL::Intercourse

We’re talking about love, relationships, and sex again.
— (4:34) Friendship jealousy and what causes it— (13:38) The tension between expecting too much from a romantic partner and not expecting much at all— (17:05) Western isolation puts more pressure on romantic relationships— (20:25) The need to be seen in a relationship and what it means— (24:26) All About Love by bell hooks defines love as an action to prioritize the other’s well-being— (32:06) We can only love or see an other to the degree that we can see and care for our own well-being— (38:44) Putting yourself aside for an other vs not being a doormat or codependent simp— (44:38) Self-love and knowing how to set boundaries is an important aspect of loving an other— (49:30) Learning to date and talk to the potential sex partners
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram offerings at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Check out John and Josh’s new formal enneagram school. And sign up for their first class  — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble and attend his weekly study group:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
https://www.johnluckovich.com/the-study-group
DAA — Becoming more fluent in the language of the enneagram to see types more clearly. Watch recent classes on 3 vs 6, 3 vs 9, the DJ trifix special. And get typed at https://www.enneagrammer.com/daa
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message

BHE 144 - alexa, play the wingsplainers on shuffle

Riffing and winging it.
— (4:25) Josh’s new object relational theory of the centers and the superego triad— (10:20) The hornevians might explain why certain types are next to each other— (11:18) 8w9 vs 8w7 centralized vs decentralized leverage— (17:06) 1w9 vs 1w2 — (30:25) 4w5/5w4 ephemeral self-invention— (44:00) The hell of the double hexad types— (47:43) Plans for more soul intercourse episodes
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram offerings at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Check out John and Josh’s new formal enneagram school. And sign up for their first class  — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble and attend his weekly study group:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
https://www.johnluckovich.com/the-study-group
DAA — Becoming more fluent in the language of the enneagram and see types more clearly. Watch recent classes on Bo Burnham, 3 vs 6, and 3 vs 9. And get typed at https://www.enneagrammer.com/daa
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message

BHE 143 - NO LOVE LOVELINE

Haven’t done one of these in a while. Applications to join the cult of cream are open today.
— (10:32) Someone had a lot to be sorry for— (11:28) Borderline personality disorder, suicide, and 4 / mental illness and enneagram types — (18:08) Our body impressions of the heart types— (26:07) Heart types are rare / why are most people 6 or 9 and why are 4s so rare?— (35:37) We’re the most unsuccessful cult leaders and grifters in existence / 49 reasons to join Alexandra’s cult of cream— (45:12) Object relational affect of the wings and how they work with the types that cross centers — (51:39) 5 rejection of exogenous orientation vs the remixing entertainment machine of 7
Check out Courtney’s enneagram offerings at her new site:https://www.courtneysmithconsulting.com/
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram offerings at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Check out John and Josh’s new formal enneagram school. And sign up for their first class  — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble and attend his weekly study group:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
https://www.johnluckovich.com/the-study-group
DAA — Becoming more fluent in the language of the enneagram through the practice of typing. Watch recent classes on Bo Burnham, 3 vs 6, and Meghan Markle. And get typed at https://www.enneagrammer.com/daa
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message

BHE 142 - PART2.DREAMWORK Therapy Hang - Kristen Oberly

Picking up where we left off with Nancy’s homecoming. Then onwards to David and Alexandra.
— (8:04) David’s shares a haunting dream he had after his mother’s death— (17:03) Kristen probes David for more and interprets what be might represented— (36:41) Alexandra shares a dream she had about bleeding middle fingers on subways— (41:27) Kristen draws the connections between middle fingers and saturn; which is associated with austere standards and discernement
To book Kristen for a dream interpretation you can reach her at:https://www.inkstoryrebel.com/services-1
Check out Courtney’s enneagram offerings at her new site:https://www.courtneysmithconsulting.com/
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram offerings at her new website saturnruled9.com
Check out John and Josh’s new formal enneagram school. And sign up for their first class  — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble and attend his weekly study group:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
https://www.johnluckovich.com/the-study-group
DAA — Becoming more fluent in the language of the enneagram through typing. Watch recent classes on Bo Burnham, Fiona Apple, Dolly Parton. And get typed at enneagrammer.com
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message

BHE 141 - DREAMWORK Therapy Hang - Kristen Oberly

We’re not crying you’re crying. Kristen is back to psychoanalyze our dreams and traumas. Starting with Nancy.
— (10:37) 9s sleeping all the damn time / hit up the Loveline if you’re an insomniac 9— (15:38) Nancy tells us the story of her traumatic disaster move to the Netherlands — (30:34) And how it directly relates to a juicy dream she had about a beheading— (41:01) Kristen interprets the competency themes in Nancy’s dream— (50:27) And being confronted with the feeling and disappointment of failure as a 3
To book Kristen for a dream interpretation you can reach her at:https://www.inkstoryrebel.com/services-1
Check out Courtney’s enneagram offerings at her new site:https://www.courtneysmithconsulting.com/
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram offerings at her new website saturnruled9.com
Check out John and Josh’s new formal enneagram school. And sign up for their first class  — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble and attend his weekly study group:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
https://www.johnluckovich.com/the-study-group
DAA — Becoming more fluent in the enneagram thru the practice of typing. Watch recent classes on John Malkovich, Fiona Apple, Dolly Parton. And get typed at enneagrammer.com
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Call the Loveline with your comments and thoughts about dreams and/or 9s sleeping at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message

BHE 140 - i n y o u r d r e a m s ( p a r t 2 ) - Kristen Oberly

— (3:16) Nancy shares a dream with a recurring theme / what the unconscious is trying to tell us with a repeated dream— (10:59) Compensatory dreams / John’s social last dreams and parasocial drama— (23:32) Working with Kristen on dreams— (31:39) Exploring how dreams are shaped by instincts— (35:43) Alexandra’s persistent dreams about women
To book Kristen for a dream interpretation you can reach her at:https://www.inkstoryrebel.com/services-1
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram offerings at her new website saturnruled9.com
Check out John and Josh’s new formal enneagram school. And sign up for their first class  — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble and attend his weekly study group:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
https://www.johnluckovich.com/the-study-group
DAA — Becoming more fluent in the enneagram thru the practice of typing. Watch recent classes on John Malkovich, Fiona Apple, Dolly Parton. And get typed at enneagrammer.com
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Call the Loveline with your comments and thoughts about the show at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message

BHE 139 - in your dreams (part 1) - Kristen Oberly

Our dreamlord Kristen is with us this week to discuss exploring the corridors of our nocturnal psychodramas.
— (9:48) How Kristen got into dream interpretation— (14:52) Dreams are a way to open up a dialogue with your unconscious and push the ego off its pedestal — (19:14) Collective projecting from a lack of a transcendent function— (21:48) What does dreamwork add to understanding your enneagram type?— (26:41) Every person or object in a dream is an aspect of yourself— (28:13) Emeka’s psychic dreams and how those work / John’s mundane counter-4 dreams— (37:55) The significance of recurring dreams— (40:51) How Kristen stays grounded as a 9 while navigating the fluid interpretation of dreams— (43:46) Practices to begin relating more to your dreams
To book Kristen for a dream interpretation you can reach her at: https://www.inkstoryrebel.com/services-1
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram offerings at her new website saturnruled9.com
Check out John and Josh’s new formal enneagram school. And sign up for their first class  — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble and attend his weekly study group:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
https://www.johnluckovich.com/the-study-group
DAA — Becoming fluent in the enneagram thru the practice of typing. Watch recent classes on instinct fashion aesthetics, Khabib, John Malkovich. And get typed at enneagrammer.com
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Call the Loveline with your comments and thoughts about the show at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message

BHE 138 - A NEW VARIANT OBJECT RELATIONS THEORY OF THE CENTERS - Josh Lavine

Josh is back to unveil his profound new model of the centers and object relations from a point of view of development. This is major.
— (13:30) Josh explains how his variant model of object relations and the centers came about / issues with the protecting and nurturing object relational framework — (20:03) Ken Wilber’s holonic theory of consciousness and the centers as a sequence of development through sensation, gaze, and symbol— (27:48) Object relational affects are oriented to the milieu of each center / frustrated, rejected, or attached to sensory impact, gaze & attention, or symbol & orientation— (28:48) How this framework makes the centers and trifix clearer and easier to work with— (34:23) Josh goes through each object relational affect in the body center— (57:10) How we hold others in symbolic space is evaluated from the perspective of our core center and object relational affect / John & Emeka and judging Josh from gaze & sensory— (1:16:45) David and John’s frustration and fighting people online
Check out John and Josh’s new formal enneagram school. And sign up for their first class which starts this week — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble and attend his weekly study group:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
https://www.johnluckovich.com/the-study-group
DAA — Becoming fluent in the enneagram thru the practice of typing. Watch recent classes on instinct fashion aesthetics, Khabib, John Malkovich. And get typed at enneagrammer.com
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Call the Loveline with your comments and thoughts about the show at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
Art by Laura Tempest Zakroff

BHE 137 - 2022 YEAR END WRAP PARTY

Join us on our annual end of year drunk pod looking back on 2022’s ups and downs.
— (7:13) Parasocial discord and drawing lines in the sand— (15:23) Looking back on the vibe of 2022 and the growth of the pod— (23:38) The year of Emeka slowing down / DG’s hot nerd creative updates— (32:44) Revisiting Alejohndra conscious sex talk and the sexual instinct— (50:51) Nancy getting married and moving halfway across the globe— (59:26) Favorite episodes and ideas for 2023 — (1:07:04) John and Josh’s new formal enneagram school— (1:16:59) Play vs play last OPS talk— (1:30:44) Last call for 2023 plans
Check out John and Josh’s new formal enneagram school. And sign up for their first class — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering
Don’t miss Emeka and John on the ‘best of’ Enneagram Global Summit (we make cheese when you sign up)shiftnetwork.infusionsoft.com/go/egs22a23961/a23961shiftnetwork.infusionsoft.com/go/egs22JohnL/JohnL
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble and attend his weekly study group:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
https://www.johnluckovich.com/the-study-group
DAA — Becoming experientially fluent with the enneagram thru the practice of typing. Watch recent classes on the Liver King, Assertive 9s, Khabib. And get typed at enneagrammer.com
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Call the Loveline with your comments and thoughts about the show at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message