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Sunday Apr 09, 2023
Sunday Apr 09, 2023
Part 2 baby.
— (1:39) The grounded reality of this cult vs the ridiculousness of Holy Hell— (7:45) We’re all vulnerable to sources of idealized parenting— (19:25) The school was for outcasts primed to fall for a parental manipulator— (28:35) 9’s attaching to a story as a form of maintaining psychological comfort— (31:34) We should watch Holy Hell and Wild Country— (39:08) Applications to become part-time BHE slaves are now open
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram offerings at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Check out John and Josh’s new formal enneagram school. And sign up for their now 6-part class — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble and attend his weekly study group:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
https://www.johnluckovich.com/the-study-group
DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types more clearly. Watch recent classes on the White Lotus, the Bermuda trifix, Jim Morrison. And get typed at https://www.enneagrammer.com/
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
Sunday Apr 02, 2023
Sunday Apr 02, 2023
Watch Stolen Youth on Hulu and get into this.
— (5:13) Larry is an 8w9 862 Wouldn’t Hurt a Fly— (9:18) What’s so compelling about a type like Larry?— (13:00) The government and military as social hooks used to manipulate victims— (24:43) Setting an attachment landscape and opening the door for alternative realities with ‘taking responsibility’— (29:53) 8’s leveraging victimhood and why Larry is sp/so— (44:29) Shaping reality with relentless alternative memories / attachment as a survival strategy— (48:39) The seductive pull of a being given a scapegoat for why your life sucks / rejection creating parental dynamics
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram offerings at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Check out John and Josh’s new formal enneagram school. And sign up for their now 6-part class — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble and attend his weekly study group:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
https://www.johnluckovich.com/the-study-group
DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types more clearly. Watch recent classes on the White Lotus, the Bermuda trifix, the DJ trifix. And get typed at https://www.enneagrammer.com/
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
Sunday Mar 26, 2023
Sunday Mar 26, 2023
Check out our prior episodes on objective personality if you haven’t already. John - Ti/Se-CS/P(B) / Alexandra - Se/Fe-PB/S(C) / David - Te/Se-PC/S(B) / Emeka - Se/Te-PC/B(S).
Watch Stolen Youth on Hulu for next week.
— (5:59) 3 Playas vs John’s Play-last / What is Blast— (10:28) Play is co-creative real time learning / PC vs PB— (14:51) Blindspots and tidalwaves / Emeka’s Sleep-last— (17:46) Alexandra and John’s Play vs Play-last relationship dynamic / Emeka’s Play and De as a reclusive 8 rejection type— (21:00) Hopefully eventually the enneagram gets integrated into OPS— (24:04) The mental style of OPS vs the enneagram and typing objectively— (28:59) Consume and Sleep last tidalwaves
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram offerings at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Check out John and Josh’s new formal enneagram school. And sign up for their now 6-part class — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble and attend his weekly study group:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
https://www.johnluckovich.com/the-study-group
DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at typing people and seeing types more clearly. Watch recent classes on Austin Butler, the Bermuda trifix, the DJ trifix. And get typed at https://www.enneagrammer.com/
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
Sunday Mar 19, 2023
Sunday Mar 19, 2023
Cont’d.
— (6:02) This is now a 9 enabling self-pres podcast— (11:26) Become a hope machine / lift some weights— (18:14) We should do an episode on the self-pres love language— (21:11) John’s sleep vs Emeka’s sleep last as recluse cavemen— (26:29) Tackling big life topics through the lens of the enneagram / most relationship advice is missing the thing it most needs - the sexual instinct— (31:15) Finding your attraction orientation apart from what’s generally accepted as attractive
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram offerings at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Check out John and Josh’s new formal enneagram school. And sign up for their now 6-part class — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble and attend his weekly study group:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
https://www.johnluckovich.com/the-study-group
DAA — Refining your intuition of the types to see them more clearly and become a more accurate typer. Watch recent classes on 3 vs 6, 3 vs 9, the DJ trifix special. And get typed at https://www.enneagrammer.com/daa
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
Sunday Mar 12, 2023
Sunday Mar 12, 2023
We’re talking about love, relationships, and sex again.
— (4:34) Friendship jealousy and what causes it— (13:38) The tension between expecting too much from a romantic partner and not expecting much at all— (17:05) Western isolation puts more pressure on romantic relationships— (20:25) The need to be seen in a relationship and what it means— (24:26) All About Love by bell hooks defines love as an action to prioritize the other’s well-being— (32:06) We can only love or see an other to the degree that we can see and care for our own well-being— (38:44) Putting yourself aside for an other vs not being a doormat or codependent simp— (44:38) Self-love and knowing how to set boundaries is an important aspect of loving an other— (49:30) Learning to date and talk to the potential sex partners
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram offerings at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Check out John and Josh’s new formal enneagram school. And sign up for their first class — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble and attend his weekly study group:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
https://www.johnluckovich.com/the-study-group
DAA — Becoming more fluent in the language of the enneagram to see types more clearly. Watch recent classes on 3 vs 6, 3 vs 9, the DJ trifix special. And get typed at https://www.enneagrammer.com/daa
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
Sunday Mar 05, 2023
Sunday Mar 05, 2023
Riffing and winging it.
— (4:25) Josh’s new object relational theory of the centers and the superego triad— (10:20) The hornevians might explain why certain types are next to each other— (11:18) 8w9 vs 8w7 centralized vs decentralized leverage— (17:06) 1w9 vs 1w2 — (30:25) 4w5/5w4 ephemeral self-invention— (44:00) The hell of the double hexad types— (47:43) Plans for more soul intercourse episodes
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram offerings at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Check out John and Josh’s new formal enneagram school. And sign up for their first class — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble and attend his weekly study group:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
https://www.johnluckovich.com/the-study-group
DAA — Becoming more fluent in the language of the enneagram and see types more clearly. Watch recent classes on Bo Burnham, 3 vs 6, and 3 vs 9. And get typed at https://www.enneagrammer.com/daa
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
Sunday Feb 26, 2023
Sunday Feb 26, 2023
Haven’t done one of these in a while. Applications to join the cult of cream are open today.
— (10:32) Someone had a lot to be sorry for— (11:28) Borderline personality disorder, suicide, and 4 / mental illness and enneagram types — (18:08) Our body impressions of the heart types— (26:07) Heart types are rare / why are most people 6 or 9 and why are 4s so rare?— (35:37) We’re the most unsuccessful cult leaders and grifters in existence / 49 reasons to join Alexandra’s cult of cream— (45:12) Object relational affect of the wings and how they work with the types that cross centers — (51:39) 5 rejection of exogenous orientation vs the remixing entertainment machine of 7
Check out Courtney’s enneagram offerings at her new site:https://www.courtneysmithconsulting.com/
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram offerings at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Check out John and Josh’s new formal enneagram school. And sign up for their first class — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble and attend his weekly study group:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
https://www.johnluckovich.com/the-study-group
DAA — Becoming more fluent in the language of the enneagram through the practice of typing. Watch recent classes on Bo Burnham, 3 vs 6, and Meghan Markle. And get typed at https://www.enneagrammer.com/daa
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
Sunday Feb 19, 2023
Sunday Feb 19, 2023
Picking up where we left off with Nancy’s homecoming. Then onwards to David and Alexandra.
— (8:04) David’s shares a haunting dream he had after his mother’s death— (17:03) Kristen probes David for more and interprets what be might represented— (36:41) Alexandra shares a dream she had about bleeding middle fingers on subways— (41:27) Kristen draws the connections between middle fingers and saturn; which is associated with austere standards and discernement
To book Kristen for a dream interpretation you can reach her at:https://www.inkstoryrebel.com/services-1
Check out Courtney’s enneagram offerings at her new site:https://www.courtneysmithconsulting.com/
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram offerings at her new website saturnruled9.com
Check out John and Josh’s new formal enneagram school. And sign up for their first class — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble and attend his weekly study group:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
https://www.johnluckovich.com/the-study-group
DAA — Becoming more fluent in the language of the enneagram through typing. Watch recent classes on Bo Burnham, Fiona Apple, Dolly Parton. And get typed at enneagrammer.com
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
Sunday Feb 12, 2023
Sunday Feb 12, 2023
We’re not crying you’re crying. Kristen is back to psychoanalyze our dreams and traumas. Starting with Nancy.
— (10:37) 9s sleeping all the damn time / hit up the Loveline if you’re an insomniac 9— (15:38) Nancy tells us the story of her traumatic disaster move to the Netherlands — (30:34) And how it directly relates to a juicy dream she had about a beheading— (41:01) Kristen interprets the competency themes in Nancy’s dream— (50:27) And being confronted with the feeling and disappointment of failure as a 3
To book Kristen for a dream interpretation you can reach her at:https://www.inkstoryrebel.com/services-1
Check out Courtney’s enneagram offerings at her new site:https://www.courtneysmithconsulting.com/
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram offerings at her new website saturnruled9.com
Check out John and Josh’s new formal enneagram school. And sign up for their first class — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble and attend his weekly study group:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
https://www.johnluckovich.com/the-study-group
DAA — Becoming more fluent in the enneagram thru the practice of typing. Watch recent classes on John Malkovich, Fiona Apple, Dolly Parton. And get typed at enneagrammer.com
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Call the Loveline with your comments and thoughts about dreams and/or 9s sleeping at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
Sunday Feb 05, 2023
Sunday Feb 05, 2023
— (3:16) Nancy shares a dream with a recurring theme / what the unconscious is trying to tell us with a repeated dream— (10:59) Compensatory dreams / John’s social last dreams and parasocial drama— (23:32) Working with Kristen on dreams— (31:39) Exploring how dreams are shaped by instincts— (35:43) Alexandra’s persistent dreams about women
To book Kristen for a dream interpretation you can reach her at:https://www.inkstoryrebel.com/services-1
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram offerings at her new website saturnruled9.com
Check out John and Josh’s new formal enneagram school. And sign up for their first class — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble and attend his weekly study group:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
https://www.johnluckovich.com/the-study-group
DAA — Becoming more fluent in the enneagram thru the practice of typing. Watch recent classes on John Malkovich, Fiona Apple, Dolly Parton. And get typed at enneagrammer.com
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Call the Loveline with your comments and thoughts about the show at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message