Big Hormone Enneagram

BHE 119 - THE MISSING PIECES

The instinctual blindspot ain’t the only one you need to integrate. We explore how certain types, centers, and qualities that are missing in us become shadows.
— (6:42) How we’re attracted to those that embody typological qualities we’re missing— (11:53) We’re drawn to and most affected by our last weakest center— (15:40) Unaddressed blindspots become unconscious demons and quarter life - midlife crisis— (23:40) Exploring the types that are missing for us / Emeka’s missing superego and 9— (24:59) Nancy and DG are missing the rejection types 2/5/8— (31:10) Extreme polarity is very attractive but unstable— (35:56) What missing all the rejection types means for Nancy and David
 If you haven’t already, go buy John’s book on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
DAA — Discover the dark arts of enneagram typing.Watch recent typing classes on Andrew Tate, Robert Greene, Marina Abramovic. And get typed at enneagrammer.com
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
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BHE 118 - [LIVE POD] Q&A/AMA

We haven’t deserted y’all. Coming live to you from Brooklyn, NY answering your AMA questions. And we’ve got a small live audience with us. Link to the live video on Youtube: https://youtu.be/plnJ9a1pFUA
— (8:30) We’re all mistyped— (9:55) Yes, you’re the toxic one if your 9 has checked out— (11:58) Self-pres 9s carrying the weight of the world— (15:44) 9s being mean and dramatic but nice in different contexts— (19:16) Hexad types with attachment fixes and vice versa— (29:13) Josh and the What It’s Like To Be You pod / what it's like to interview attachment vs hexad types— (37:28) Emeka talks to himself when he’s talking to you— (41:06) Gray’s assertive attachment approach to get bonding and connection— (47:12) How Emeka experiences chemistry when he’s not sexually attracted— (50:44) How Alexandra experiences chemistry as a sx-blind— (55:52) John’s a 2 and why people don’t understand heart types If you haven’t already, go buy John’s book on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
DAA — Because anything less than accurate is intolerable.Watch recent typing classes on Derren Brown, Robert Greene, and get typed at enneagrammer.com
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
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BHE 117 - WE GIVE YOU 8-WINGS - Alexandra

We’re back at it again with wings, starting with the most lovable 8s.
— (18:14) Intro to the body center and its purpose — (20:28) 8w9 is the godfather/godmother— (27:30) 8w9’s attachment wing makes them more controlling and sensitive to disrespect— (32:23) Positive types fuel the immovable ego agendas of 8 and 1 — destruction and order— (35:31) The lovable perfection of 8w7— (41:06) How to distinguish the idealization of 8w7’s frustation wing and 8w9’s positive attachment wing— (48:23) The extreme lengths a 9 might go to not do anything— (55:35) We’re doing a Q&A/AMA live pod next week / send in your questions
If you haven’t already, go buy John’s book on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
DAA — Because anything less than accurate is intolerable.Watch recent typing classes on Derren Brown, Robert Greene, and get typed at enneagrammer.com
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
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BHE 116 - THE UPSIDE DOWN TRIANGLE / REFLECTIONS - Alexandra

We went off the deep end to explore the upside down hexagram triangle and David’s reflections between hexad and attachment.
— (12:08) Recapping what 3/6/9 represent for humanity vs the hexagram triangle— (16:14) The hexagram triangle is the upside down of the 369 triangle— (18:06) DG’s reflections and how the hexad types types are born of the attachment types (3>7/8, 6>1/2, 9>4/5)— (26:33) The hexagram is out of sync with the cosmic flow— (27:16) The line from 9 to the space between 4/5 is the everything to the nothing — (30:04) John dives into the spheres of existence on the kabbalah / the tension between the everything and the nothing is time— (39:11) Hexad vs attachment is like contra vs synflow — a needed negative force— (44:50) Alexandra’s impressions of the 4/5 zone as a 9— (50:38) Emeka and Nancy’s reflections on 3 vs 7/8
If you haven’t already, go buy John’s book on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
DAA — Because anything less than accurate is intolerableWatch recent typing classes on Johnny Depp, Amber Heard, and more at enneagrammer.com
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
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BHE 115 - WE GIVE YOU WINGS [Part I] - Alexandra

Birthday girl Alexandra CQ is here to bestow on us her insights on wings. Lots of food for thought.
— (5:23) Misconceptions about wings from various schools of the enneagram— (9:00) Balanced wings aren’t a thing but you can sometimes access your other wing— (10:38) 8w9s are more attached to the position of control than 8w7s— (12:03) What happens with hexad types with attachment wings— (14:30) 7w6’s attachment wing makes them more relatable and conservative / Both 7-wings are reactive types— (19:53) Attachment types all have wings from different harmonics, while hexad type wings are of the same harmonic group— (21:58) How hexad gut types use their positive wings to justify pushing their agendas— (33:00) Hexad types with hexad wings are winged crossing over into the next center and doubled up on their hornevian groups (assertive, compliant, withdrawn)— (37:57) The hexagram vs the bermuda triangle— (48:00) Attachment types being conduits for the specified objections of their hexad wings— (53:03) Plans for episodes on rejection and frustration / frustration types having insecurity around their inadequate attempts to create the ideal
If you haven’t already, go buy John’s book on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
DAA — Because anything less than accurate is intolerableWatch recent typing classes on Johnny Depp, Amber Heard, and more at enneagrammer.com
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
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BHE 114 - you should learn how to type / but why - Joseph Simone

The Enneagrammer team explores why learning how to type is a must.
— (5:00) Learning how to type is a requirement for applying the enneagram— (9:14) ‘Only you can type yourself’, as if you’re conscious of your *unconscious* motivations— (12:30) To use and apply the enneagram you have to first start with accurate observations of how it applies— (16:34) Typing is a practice of observing distinctions snapping into place and forming 3D architecture — (18:26) Use the inherent bias of your type’s lens to identify your own relationship to each type— (22:49) Every description you’ve ever read is a work-in-progress snapshot from the author’s lens and experience— (30:05) Learnings from our experience typing as a team / Getchu a typing buddy— (36:18) Observing and identifying type as dynamics vs type as identity— (39:04) The importance of typing fictional characters / typing is accurately matching concept with reality / new descriptions are discoveries pulling from reality back to concept— (45:14) Accurate typing is at the foundation for why our group is so nice and makes new discoveries — (48:41) How knowing how to type changes your dating experience / DG’s impressions on our accelerated growth the last few years— (53:11) How mind-blowing hexad vs attachment still is as a discovery
If you haven’t already, go buy John’s book on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
DAA — Because anything less than accurate is intolerableWatch recent typing classes on Johnny Depp, Amber Heard, and more at enneagrammer.com
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
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BHE 113 - LOVELINE // REBOUND

Bouncing back into the swing of things with a light loveline. 
— (1:27) Riffing on the spiritual role of the enneagram and inner work in society— (9:06) New beginnings applying the discoveries from the last year— (20:44) Can the enneagram be used widely long term as a developmental tool?— (22:17) Reasons why it’s unlikely the enneagram undiluted will ever become a mainstream hit— (24:36) Sherwin williams paint and the commercialization of the enneagram— (28:55) How do we see someone relating to both hexad and attachment as a type 1? Can you be both?— (33:23) Type 1s aren’t about being good as much they’re about justifying an inner sense of how things should go— (39:05) Hexad types think they’re more adaptable than they actually are and attachment types think they’re more solid than they are— (42:34) Props and appreciation— (43:59) Ideas for next episodes -- Let us know what you’d like to hear more of
If you haven’t already, go buy John’s book on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
Learn how to type with the Dark Arts Academy at enneagrammer.comWatch recent typing classes on Johnny Depp, Amber Heard, and more
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
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BHE 112 - [LIVE POD] PUBLIC SERVICE ANNOUNCEMENT

Allow us to reintroduce ourselves. Coming to you live from Nothingville, Virginia. For the first time, watch the video version of this episode on our youtube page: https://youtu.be/wk62CguaO8k
— (2:11) Our response to the responses to the Ian Cron Episode— (7:25) Reintroducing ourselves as a group that’s both irreverent and centered on inner work— (11:25) The approaches to inner work you prefer are a reflection of your type’s point of view— (17:45) Our provocative style reflects our personalities and is a much needed contrast to the generally accepted beige enneagram culture— (21:38) American entitlement and expectation to be catered to and coddled is in direct conflict with the conscious suffering of inner work— (25:48) Addressing comments that we hate attachment types — (33:17) Alexandra, the only social type in our midst, contextualizes our group— (36:37) The personal dynamics behind why people are drawn in but feel conflicted about our style — (44:48) Curiosity and obsession with the enneagram is what generates the quality of content we produce— (47:59) Questions from the live audience — Can one’s own narcissism be leveraged for inner work?— (51:53) How do positive types learn from us without needing their own space?— (58:50) What aspect of the enneagram do you still find yourselves curious about? Do you find yourselves curious about the basics?— (1:02:46) Light roasting of John’s book. Integrating narcissism and inner work
If you haven’t already, go buy John’s book on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
Learn how to type with the Dark Arts Academy at enneagrammer.comWatch recent typing classes on Johnny Depp, Amber Heard, and more.
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
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BHE 111 - THE OBJECTIVE PERSONALITY DOWNLOAD [Part II] - Dave Powers

We’re picking up where we left off with Dave Powers of objectivepersonality.com, exploring similarities between OPS and the enneagram.
— (1:39) Function animals cont’d with John’s play last— (6:57) How working on the last animal is similar to integrating the instinctual blindspot, and how to work on sleep and consume as last animals— (15:47) How to work on the play and blast last animals— (26:08) Consciousness as a collection of programs running us— (33:08) Learning from experiences as we get older is how we develop beyond our worst patterns— (37:28) Dave/Shan’s enneagram types and typing from different centers— (43:57) What growth and health means in OPS from the perspective of positivity vs negativity— (51:38) Setting goals and watching ourselves f**k it up is what clues us into our blindspots and type patterns. — (54:54) Maps like OPS and the enneagram allow us to study and develop ourselves with precision
Check out ObjectivePersonality.com for OPS classes and resources
If you haven’t already, go buy John’s book on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Learn how to type with the Dark Arts Academy at enneagrammer.com
Call the Loveline with your comments and thoughts about the show at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message.

BHE 110 - THE OBJECTIVE PERSONALITY DOWNLOAD [Part I] - Dave Powers

Dave Powers of objectivepersonality.com is with us to dive into what the OPS system has to offer and explore its inner work similarities with the enneagram.
— (5:49) Dave tells us the story of how Objective Personality got started— (10:40) How mapping Jung’s 8 functions to Tony Robbin’s human needs gave birth to the OPS coins— (19:32) Observers vs Decider talk and the life paths and issues either side creates— (22:59) How to decipher if someone’s an observer or a decider— (28:25) Comparing our experiences typing people and the drama that ensues— (33:05) Blindspots are painful to address and are at the root of our suffering— (40:39) The sensory vs intuition mistype and useful distinctions to tell them apart— (47:33) Soft typing John and his obsession with Egypt— (53:13) What the function animals are and how they became a thing [Cont’d in Part II]
Check out ObjectivePersonality.com for OPS classes and resources
If you haven’t already, go buy John’s book on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Sign up for the Dark Arts Academy at enneagrammer.com
Call the Loveline with your comments and thoughts about the show at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message.