Big Hormone Enneagram

BHE 116 - THE UPSIDE DOWN TRIANGLE / REFLECTIONS - Alexandra

We went off the deep end to explore the upside down hexagram triangle and David’s reflections between hexad and attachment.
— (12:08) Recapping what 3/6/9 represent for humanity vs the hexagram triangle— (16:14) The hexagram triangle is the upside down of the 369 triangle— (18:06) DG’s reflections and how the hexad types types are born of the attachment types (3>7/8, 6>1/2, 9>4/5)— (26:33) The hexagram is out of sync with the cosmic flow— (27:16) The line from 9 to the space between 4/5 is the everything to the nothing — (30:04) John dives into the spheres of existence on the kabbalah / the tension between the everything and the nothing is time— (39:11) Hexad vs attachment is like contra vs synflow — a needed negative force— (44:50) Alexandra’s impressions of the 4/5 zone as a 9— (50:38) Emeka and Nancy’s reflections on 3 vs 7/8
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DAA — Because anything less than accurate is intolerableWatch recent typing classes on Johnny Depp, Amber Heard, and more at enneagrammer.com
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BHE 115 - WE GIVE YOU WINGS [Part I] - Alexandra

Birthday girl Alexandra CQ is here to bestow on us her insights on wings. Lots of food for thought.
— (5:23) Misconceptions about wings from various schools of the enneagram— (9:00) Balanced wings aren’t a thing but you can sometimes access your other wing— (10:38) 8w9s are more attached to the position of control than 8w7s— (12:03) What happens with hexad types with attachment wings— (14:30) 7w6’s attachment wing makes them more relatable and conservative / Both 7-wings are reactive types— (19:53) Attachment types all have wings from different harmonics, while hexad type wings are of the same harmonic group— (21:58) How hexad gut types use their positive wings to justify pushing their agendas— (33:00) Hexad types with hexad wings are winged crossing over into the next center and doubled up on their hornevian groups (assertive, compliant, withdrawn)— (37:57) The hexagram vs the bermuda triangle— (48:00) Attachment types being conduits for the specified objections of their hexad wings— (53:03) Plans for episodes on rejection and frustration / frustration types having insecurity around their inadequate attempts to create the ideal
If you haven’t already, go buy John’s book on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
DAA — Because anything less than accurate is intolerableWatch recent typing classes on Johnny Depp, Amber Heard, and more at enneagrammer.com
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
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BHE 114 - you should learn how to type / but why - Joseph Simone

The Enneagrammer team explores why learning how to type is a must.
— (5:00) Learning how to type is a requirement for applying the enneagram— (9:14) ‘Only you can type yourself’, as if you’re conscious of your *unconscious* motivations— (12:30) To use and apply the enneagram you have to first start with accurate observations of how it applies— (16:34) Typing is a practice of observing distinctions snapping into place and forming 3D architecture — (18:26) Use the inherent bias of your type’s lens to identify your own relationship to each type— (22:49) Every description you’ve ever read is a work-in-progress snapshot from the author’s lens and experience— (30:05) Learnings from our experience typing as a team / Getchu a typing buddy— (36:18) Observing and identifying type as dynamics vs type as identity— (39:04) The importance of typing fictional characters / typing is accurately matching concept with reality / new descriptions are discoveries pulling from reality back to concept— (45:14) Accurate typing is at the foundation for why our group is so nice and makes new discoveries — (48:41) How knowing how to type changes your dating experience / DG’s impressions on our accelerated growth the last few years— (53:11) How mind-blowing hexad vs attachment still is as a discovery
If you haven’t already, go buy John’s book on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
DAA — Because anything less than accurate is intolerableWatch recent typing classes on Johnny Depp, Amber Heard, and more at enneagrammer.com
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
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BHE 113 - LOVELINE // REBOUND

Bouncing back into the swing of things with a light loveline. 
— (1:27) Riffing on the spiritual role of the enneagram and inner work in society— (9:06) New beginnings applying the discoveries from the last year— (20:44) Can the enneagram be used widely long term as a developmental tool?— (22:17) Reasons why it’s unlikely the enneagram undiluted will ever become a mainstream hit— (24:36) Sherwin williams paint and the commercialization of the enneagram— (28:55) How do we see someone relating to both hexad and attachment as a type 1? Can you be both?— (33:23) Type 1s aren’t about being good as much they’re about justifying an inner sense of how things should go— (39:05) Hexad types think they’re more adaptable than they actually are and attachment types think they’re more solid than they are— (42:34) Props and appreciation— (43:59) Ideas for next episodes -- Let us know what you’d like to hear more of
If you haven’t already, go buy John’s book on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
Learn how to type with the Dark Arts Academy at enneagrammer.comWatch recent typing classes on Johnny Depp, Amber Heard, and more
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
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BHE 112 - [LIVE POD] PUBLIC SERVICE ANNOUNCEMENT

Allow us to reintroduce ourselves. Coming to you live from Nothingville, Virginia. For the first time, watch the video version of this episode on our youtube page: https://youtu.be/wk62CguaO8k
— (2:11) Our response to the responses to the Ian Cron Episode— (7:25) Reintroducing ourselves as a group that’s both irreverent and centered on inner work— (11:25) The approaches to inner work you prefer are a reflection of your type’s point of view— (17:45) Our provocative style reflects our personalities and is a much needed contrast to the generally accepted beige enneagram culture— (21:38) American entitlement and expectation to be catered to and coddled is in direct conflict with the conscious suffering of inner work— (25:48) Addressing comments that we hate attachment types — (33:17) Alexandra, the only social type in our midst, contextualizes our group— (36:37) The personal dynamics behind why people are drawn in but feel conflicted about our style — (44:48) Curiosity and obsession with the enneagram is what generates the quality of content we produce— (47:59) Questions from the live audience — Can one’s own narcissism be leveraged for inner work?— (51:53) How do positive types learn from us without needing their own space?— (58:50) What aspect of the enneagram do you still find yourselves curious about? Do you find yourselves curious about the basics?— (1:02:46) Light roasting of John’s book. Integrating narcissism and inner work
If you haven’t already, go buy John’s book on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
Learn how to type with the Dark Arts Academy at enneagrammer.comWatch recent typing classes on Johnny Depp, Amber Heard, and more.
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
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BHE 111 - THE OBJECTIVE PERSONALITY DOWNLOAD [Part II] - Dave Powers

We’re picking up where we left off with Dave Powers of objectivepersonality.com, exploring similarities between OPS and the enneagram.
— (1:39) Function animals cont’d with John’s play last— (6:57) How working on the last animal is similar to integrating the instinctual blindspot, and how to work on sleep and consume as last animals— (15:47) How to work on the play and blast last animals— (26:08) Consciousness as a collection of programs running us— (33:08) Learning from experiences as we get older is how we develop beyond our worst patterns— (37:28) Dave/Shan’s enneagram types and typing from different centers— (43:57) What growth and health means in OPS from the perspective of positivity vs negativity— (51:38) Setting goals and watching ourselves f**k it up is what clues us into our blindspots and type patterns. — (54:54) Maps like OPS and the enneagram allow us to study and develop ourselves with precision
Check out ObjectivePersonality.com for OPS classes and resources
If you haven’t already, go buy John’s book on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Learn how to type with the Dark Arts Academy at enneagrammer.com
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BHE 110 - THE OBJECTIVE PERSONALITY DOWNLOAD [Part I] - Dave Powers

Dave Powers of objectivepersonality.com is with us to dive into what the OPS system has to offer and explore its inner work similarities with the enneagram.
— (5:49) Dave tells us the story of how Objective Personality got started— (10:40) How mapping Jung’s 8 functions to Tony Robbin’s human needs gave birth to the OPS coins— (19:32) Observers vs Decider talk and the life paths and issues either side creates— (22:59) How to decipher if someone’s an observer or a decider— (28:25) Comparing our experiences typing people and the drama that ensues— (33:05) Blindspots are painful to address and are at the root of our suffering— (40:39) The sensory vs intuition mistype and useful distinctions to tell them apart— (47:33) Soft typing John and his obsession with Egypt— (53:13) What the function animals are and how they became a thing [Cont’d in Part II]
Check out ObjectivePersonality.com for OPS classes and resources
If you haven’t already, go buy John’s book on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Sign up for the Dark Arts Academy at enneagrammer.com
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BHE 109 - THE IAN CRON EPISODE

This week we have on special guest Ian Cron, author of the Road Back To You. We’ve put aside our differences and tried to come to an understanding. 
— (5:10) Introduction to Ian Cron and his work— (8:49) Love and compassion are what makes us human— (15:23) 4s are focused on the dark but are also envious of your happiness and light— (22:44) We make amends for #nota4 and the emotional psychological trauma it has caused— (28:66) The church has revolutionized the enneagram — (33:69) The emptiness of our hearts have to be filled by his love
If you haven’t already, go buy John’s book on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
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BHE 108 - THE TINDER SWINDLER - Alexandra

This week Emeka and Alejohndra are discussing the Netflix doc, The Tinder Swindler. The rest of crew has been held hostage by our road back to you haters in Prague. Please paypal $500 to bhepodcast@gmail.com or David and Nancy will die. Love you babies forever.
— (7:58) Overview/Summary of the premise and why this story is compelling from the POV of the enneagram— (13:29) Attachment is the fundamental O.R. structure for everyone and people don’t really connect with each other— (15:28) 3s are mirroring back to you what you find valuable and crafting an emotional landscape— (28:44) The competency of 3 at masterminding an identity and scheme— (33:58) Elizabeth Holmes and Kanye as further examples of what’s so compelling about 3s— (40:51) How the different assertive types scam people— (45:00) Attachment gone bad on The Bachelor and Love is Blind. The 9 vs 3 style of blankness
If you haven’t already, go buy John’s book on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Sign up for the Dark Arts Academy at enneagrammer.com
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BHE 107 - THE BERMUDA ZONE - Courtney & Alexandra

Nancy hosts a bangin attachment talk with Alexandra and Courtney. Some magic happened in this Bermuda Zone.
— (3:24) Contrasting and comparing attachment to disconnect experiences from the perspective of 3/6/9— (10:38) 3&9 vs 6 differences on revealing their location — (18:54) Round robin impressions of the other attachment types— (21:18) What’s scary about 9 for 3&6— (24:16) What’s scary about 3 for 6&9— (30:02) What’s scary about 6 for 9&3— (36:41) 6’s need to earn it and are committed to life being difficult— (40:11) Courtney’s experiences as an attachment parent — (44:10) Nancy recalls what it was like to be parented by a hexad vs an attachment parent— (48:52) Alexandra’s experiences in an all attachment family— (1:04:55) The attachment insecurity around being loved for you are as an individual vs how you’ve adapted to be loved— (1:09:36) What each attachment type thinks they needed from their parents— (1:16:56) Grounding practices for each attachment type
If you haven’t already, go buy John’s book on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Sign up for the Dark Arts Academy at enneagrammer.com
Call the Loveline with your comments and thoughts about the show at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message.